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I never really understood why people are so intent on the notion of "unconditional love." There are definitely conditions to my love, as there are for literally every person ever.Am I the only one that thinks it is selfish of his wife to try to dictate what he should do with his life. She should be supportive of his decisions and love him unconditionally through good times and bad, aren't those the vows you take when you stand next to the alter?
And no I don't think someone is obligated to support their spouse's career choice no matter what. None of us really know the details of OP's personal and family life. He gave us literally the bare minimum info and disapparated out of here. That said, speaking generally, there are definitely a ton of valid points that OP's wife could have about not being supportive of his career choice. It's pretty well-established that the busy life of a doctor can place a great strain on family life and feeling like you're neglected or that your child doesn't have solid parental involvement is a totally legit preoccupation. A marriage is an interplay of compromise and dialogue. Not "I'll do what I want and you better support me"