Ok, feel like I'm beating my head against a wall trying to get you few to understand that this is NOT about the importance of communication, what was said, or what they tell you effecting your list. I don't see why it's so hard for you to grasp. I simply think that if people know who is and who is not sending out emails or making phone calls it can help calm some nerves from people that are wondering "why the silence". It's not about "oh, XYZ sent an email so they must be interested". It's about "well, I didn't hear from XYZ but apparently from this list neither did anyone else so it's not a big deal and I shouldn't stress about it". There, is that simple enough for you?? For the ones that DO email and you didn't get an email then they can take it as they want to but I personally would take it as if 5 people I know got an email saying whatever and I didn't get one then that probably means I'm lower on THEIR list. Doesn't mean I change mine out of spite or that I don't rank them because of it, that just means you have the ASSUMPTION that you will be lower down their list than others but does NOT change where I put them. Just my belief of where I think I stand in their eyes and if any of you who are saying "it doesn't matter" claim you did NOT let thoughts of "Ok, I know where I rank them but I wonder where they have me" run through your mind during this dead period I'll slap you in the face and call you a liar. It's human nature. The difference is letting that paranoia or belief change where you rank them which I would hope most of us are smart enough not to do (I hope). Again, if it hasn't been made clear enough... it's not about what they say, how they say it, or any "content" in the email... simply about if places email at all and being able to compare that to others. The only way that "doesn't matter" is if programs randomly choose 30-40ish people to email and then they don't email the rest and the way they choose who to email IS totally random and not tied to rank, like, desire for the candidate or whatever. It's it's truly random and the bottom of the list (or unranked) are just as likely to get an email as #1 then yeah... it doesn't matter but I seriously doubt ANYONE does that. They either send emails to everyone, send them to no one, or send only to the top 20-30-40 (or whatever number) on their list. By knowing you and everyone else got an email then you know it meant nothing. By knowing nobody got anything you know it means nothing. By knowing you got an email and others didn't it means you're likely competitive for that program, but doesn't change your list. By knowing others got emails and you didn't then you know your chances might not be as high there and this program could be considered a "reach"... but it doesn't change your match list. Sorry if you all knowing people that went through the match once and got burned by communication and you chose to believe anything they said or changed your list because of it. Your concerns have been noted and realized so if anyone else wants to actually contribute to the original intent of the thread now
please go ahead...