Mutually exclusive, no. Big overlap? Probably not.
Agreed. Just wanted to throw that out there at some point. A lot of us forumites, I think, really do like to learn. Medicine is just about one of the most intellectual fields you can get into (of course, other specialized fields can get just as intellectual or even more so—but medicine as a discipline is definitely pretty high).
My point is, admissions isn't a game of who is most genuine about their thirst for knowledge. It's about whether or not you can handle medical school. It's ultimately about whether or not adcoms think you can make the grade and walk down the aisle with your MD/DO and a white coat. Which, of course, involves proving yourself at the undergraduate level. Pushing yourself to pull as close to an A average as you possibly can, while simultaneously juggling community service (both medical and nonmedical), research, shadowing, extracurricular activities/clubs, fraternities, personal hobbies...oh, and a social life—because being a monotone interviewee is grounds for immediate rejection.
With the rising academic and social expectations of admissions committees being imposed on undergraduates over time, can you really afford to be so idealistic about the kind of applicant you're actually admitting? Sure, they want to do medicine. But people can't just blindly impose passions that don't exist. I like medicine. I have liked learning. School, however, wasn't my forté. I have to take life by the reins, though—because that's what adcoms like you want to see.
I suppose that makes me pretentious, standoffish and disingenuous. What can I say? I have a goal I'm intent on meeting, one way or another—even if it's against my nature.
This is somewhat of an excuse I make for my middling GPA, but it's also a decent lesson in the difference between grades and learning.
I've never cared about the grade I get in the class. I've always studied until I felt comfortable with the material. I'm also very bad at memorizing, but very good at learning concepts.
This has led to an A-/B+ grade record. But it also means that the material has never been dull or a burden for me. I generally read assignments and find pleasure in them, and I came to class prepared and engaged. My teachers by and large loved me, and the more writing in a class, the better my grade.
It also meant that when I couldn't look terms up, I often used crutches like "thingy" and "CD5- no - CD4? The helper ones, you know" when talking about what I studied. I still do when talking about my research off the cuff. In conversation, most professors are willing to overlook that sort of thing. But on exams, especially short-answer and multiple choice, it's hurt me quite a bit. I've gotten better about it, and I generally arrive on the right answer now, but it's still something that concerns me as I move into medical school.
In my experience, students who annoy teachers are the ones that pride themselves on their knowledge and ability to regurgitate information without really engaging with the material.
Yeah, see above. I'm more or less on the same boat. Honestly, I think I stick out more because I have the misfortune of being in the company of less academically strong individuals—rather than necessarily being any smarter than anyone else.