I'm considering whether or not to take an opportunity and I'm curious what others have pulled off in pursuit of being awesome (and a psychologist).
THIS.when I was writing my dissertation.
Honestly? The worst schedule I ever had was applying to graduate school as an undergrad. Working as an RA in three labs (30 hours per week), getting out two pubs, taking 15 units per semester, TAing for classes, members of all sorts of honors societies and clubs that put on events, compound that with GRE studying and the Ph.D. application process... whooh. I was probably at 80 hours per week. And all while trying to have a social life. I hated it.
I would still have some 12 hour days as a master's student, but I also managed to read the entire A Song of Ice and Fire series in one semester (~5,000 pages), so it couldn't have been too harrowing.
As a doctoral student, I see clients, adjunct teach at a local college (1-2 classes, depends), have a 50% TAship where I'm instructor of record, take about 4 classes each quarter, and spend 10 or 15 hours per week on my research team and personal projects. Somehow, although the work is a lot more rigorous and I believe there is simply more of it, I think the maturity that comes in growing from undergraduate, to master's, to Ph.D. has taught me a lot about work/life balance. Although my schedule should, theoretically, be crazier than it was in undergrad, it definitely isn't as frantic. I'm learning how to say no to things, what takes priority, and when I need a break. I still get to visit family that live two hours away, be sure to chat on the phone daily with my boyfriend and try to see him weekly or every other week, work out daily, play with my dog. Like someone said above, it's about efficiency and balance. I find that the more time I give myself for self-care, relaxation, and hobbies, the better I actually am at completing tasks, both in terms of the quality of the work, and also how quickly I can get motivated to get started. My whole vibe is just low stress right now, and so far it's serving me quite well!
I predict the most difficult time in a doctoral program, scheduling and time wise, will be applying for internship. My dissertation shouldn't be too bad because I'm (planning on) taking an extra year in my program to have an entire year just to have a TAship and finish my dissertation before I go on internship. I know most people try to get out quickly, but hey, I'm only two hours away from my home town and my program is funded with a nice stipend- I like the idea that I can have a full year to really focus on diss., while also delaying the inevitable leaving of my family, friends, and partner, haha.
As other posters have said above, grad school isn't too bad. If you're interested in something and really feel it's worth the necessary extra work- go for it. In my head, I told myself, "anyone can get through anything if they know when it ends" if it was bad, and told myself that I'd appreciate that I went for it if it was good. As I get older I'm learning I'm a better judge of what is worth it and what is not, and I'm sure you are too. Although I know that it totally sucks turning down amazing things that you are very passionate about. If only we all had Hermione's time turner!!
In my program, it is allowed if you get permission. Ethically and per my program rules, you must be very clear to only be a student/trainee at your practicum and not use your license and only a master's level provider at your job and not attempt to act outside your master's level competence or above your license. This may vary from program to program but your DCT will have guidelines.Hey, I had a question about your experience with this. I'll have my masters level license by the time I (hopefully) start my PhD as well and was thinking of doing the same thing. I expect there shouldn't be an issue first year, but once you start practicum/externships in second year, is it considered an ethical conflict of interest to be doing your doctoral practicum AND moonlighting on the side?
(Anyone else who can answer feel free to chime in too!)