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I know that this topic has been discussed to death but I'm looking for as much advice as possible to guide my decision.
I'm 22 and I will be graduating from Northwestern in two weeks. Throughout my undergrad time, I've solely worked toward pursuing medical school (I've completed all the pre-medical requirements and even obtained letters of recommendation for medical school). Recently though, I've been having some doubts.
I have been with my current boyfriend for 6 years now and we would like to move to the next level in our relationship soon. This, however, got me thinking about having a family and how being a physician would affect this.
When I have children, I want to be a significant part of their lives, not just a bystander. Because of this, I have considered/am considering the PA route. I don't know if this is the route I want to take though and I have a slight suspicion that I may eventually regret not going to medical school. Would I be able to be a significant part of my children's lives if I am a physician? How do current female physicians juggle the life/work balance? Do they feel that they have adequate family time?
(Just for the record, I plan on going into one of the less "demanding" specialties, like family practice, and my relationship partner is very supportive (he has even offered to be a stay-at-home dad!))
I'm 22 and I will be graduating from Northwestern in two weeks. Throughout my undergrad time, I've solely worked toward pursuing medical school (I've completed all the pre-medical requirements and even obtained letters of recommendation for medical school). Recently though, I've been having some doubts.
I have been with my current boyfriend for 6 years now and we would like to move to the next level in our relationship soon. This, however, got me thinking about having a family and how being a physician would affect this.
When I have children, I want to be a significant part of their lives, not just a bystander. Because of this, I have considered/am considering the PA route. I don't know if this is the route I want to take though and I have a slight suspicion that I may eventually regret not going to medical school. Would I be able to be a significant part of my children's lives if I am a physician? How do current female physicians juggle the life/work balance? Do they feel that they have adequate family time?
(Just for the record, I plan on going into one of the less "demanding" specialties, like family practice, and my relationship partner is very supportive (he has even offered to be a stay-at-home dad!))