Yup..that's basically my question. I'm on IM and everyone seems wear shades of grey, brown, or black.. Is it frowned upon to wear something like a red dress? Should something like that be reserved for Derm? 🙂
In all seriousness, I ascribe to the "act like a doctor, look like a doctor, get treated like a doctor." People's vision of a physician is the long white coat, the button shirt, the tie, and, unfortunately, usually male. Im not saying women should go wear a shirt and tie, but there is still "business dress."
That term has been dying in the current generation. We are more outgoing, more personable, more individual. We don't ascribe to everyone-in-the-same-suit anymore. Some people push the fringe (grey suit with a purple shirt on interview). PERSONALLY, a little dabbling on the part of the professional (a pink buttondown on a male, for example) is ok.
If it looks like you are going out on a saturday night, its not appropriate, even if that event is a black tie event. You want to be a doctor, not a date, not an escort, not a "woman." Yes, it does harpoon your individuality, it does sabotage your desire to show off your dress, your style, your class. But when you walk into a patient's room and they see a gal all done up, they think "someone's wife" not "my doctor."
People will say NO! That's so backwards! We are more progressive as a society! Oh yeah? YOU are more progressive as a society. *I* get it. People on this forum get it. But its not you are I who will be offended, who will get the wrong idea, who it even matters if we do. Its the impression on the patients that really matters (which is why, anything in the OR is ok... they're knocked out and won't remember the encounter anyway). But on the floor, "look like a doctor, get treated like a doctor."
Effect your evals? Nope (unless you are low cut to the breasts or skimpy skirt above the knee). Effect colleague's perception of you (only if you try really hard, and then its usually not the impression you want)? Nope. Effect how your patients see you and treat you? Yep.
How many times have you been called nurse? Or "what are you going to do when you grow up?" For me, every medical student introduces themself to the patients as "student doctor melburne," not "Matt the medical student." I believe in the principles of patient ownership, of responsibility, of the student being their patient's doctor. How can they do that if they don't look like one?
Ok. Does dress matter THAT much? No. But if you stick to the principles in the above paragraph, you shape dress, attitude, speech, involvement, and TOGETHER they make a huge difference.
All this being said, I've only ever seen one girl sent home or repremanded for dress. She wore a skirt that, while standing, was half way up her thigh. You can imagine when she sat down... Great for the VA vets, not great for establishing "im the doctor"