Hello to all!
Wow . . . I haven't been on SDN in what feels like ages (haven't felt like pouring salt on my wounds, basically
😉), but there certainly has been lots of news since I last checked in! Congrats on all the acceptances/WLs/interviews! LShapley - BU too? Woo-hoo! WTG! Pingouin - you are SO getting in to Mizzou! Congrats! ChemPhD - your Stanford interview sounded awesome! I'll keep my fingers crossed that that works out for you.
To contribute to the "moving" discussion, I say yes, PLEASE!!!!!

This process has been seriously rough. To add insult to injury, though, not getting in this year (which is almost certain at this point) means I don't get to move yet! ARRRRGH!

(always wanted to use that one! . . . and yeah, that's how I feel!) I'm dying to leave this city for a bigger, better one and -- nomad that I am -- having been here for almost five years just makes me itch to leave! But of course, there's more to it than that . . . my hubby (J) wanted to start his architectural internship wherever we'd be for the next 4 years, but instead, he'll have to start that here and transfer hours when we move (an ugly process that results in time added to your "internship years" before you can sit for the licensing exam. Ugh.). Also, I am SO ready to not be in a "holding pattern" anymore! I'm tired of doing the 9-5 thing for a job I don't like (hopefully I'll get a new one this summer, though!). I want to BUY, not rent, a home and do all of the fun things that go along like buying furniture and decorating and gardening (even if it's only in pots!) . . . in terms of quality of life, being in an apartment has seriously affected mine, I think. We have done so little with ours because we've been in this "we're only going to be here for a year or so" mode of thinking. So, our bed is on the floor (you can't buy a giant wood bed frame for a third floor apartment with no elevator!); most of our gazillion books are in boxes because J doesn't want to custom-build bookshelves for such a temporary space, and so on. Oh, and it's indicative that my idea of "making it" now means having my very own washer and dryer . . . and a dishwasher!
Most of all, I think I just want to feel settled. To
know rather than trust that I AM going to be a doctor and to be studying toward that goal . . . to find a city we love and to stay there forever (no more nomadic desires!) . . . to have a kid before I'm 35, maybe? That all just sounds amazing, fanstastic, idyllic . . . I guess that's what moving represents to me . . . and I want to take the exit onto that road, rather than cycling on this one for another year. *Sigh.*
Just to show you how much we want to move, we seriously (ok, maybe for like a day) considered shelling out for me to do an SMP just so we could go somewhere else and begin (sort of) that next phase NOW! However, I don't think an SMP would be the answer to the issues with my app, and I can't in good conscience take out all those extra loans AND not earn money for a year . . . AND there would be no guarantee that we wouldn't have to move again in a year OR that I'd get in
anywhere. But DAMN, I want to move!!!
Ooh, and Phoenix, I totally love that you have talked about the effects on your dog as part of the "quality of life" issue! I absolutely feel the same. Other than J, my dog is my life too. (Actually, I may spend more time with my dog!) We (who are not cat people) even got a cat for her because we thought she was lonely (now everyone can laugh at me). Anyway, one of us takes her to the local dog park EVERY morning, rain or shine, so she can get the exercise she needs, given our apartment-dwelling status. So, there has to be a good dog park wherever we go OR a good-sized yard for her (unlikely, given my strong desire to be a city-dweller). A nice climate sounds great, too (although Ginger could care less about that! That would be for us, standing out there with her!) . . . but I'm not so sure how I feel about California. I'd probably like it, but it's so far from our relatives. Ginger would never see her sister (J's parents' dog), then!. And the three hour time difference to call home would SERIOUSLY suck, seeing as how my mom goes to bed at 9.
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Ok, so how's that for lots of crazy rambling?
