I got a rejection letter in the mail yesterday that was just the icing on the sh*tcake. They spelled my name wrong--it wasn't just missing a letter, it was an entirely different first name--and they put the wrong year on the letter. It was really just a slap in the face considering the time and money I put into their app and I'm about ready to write an angry email to someone who probably doesn't really care.
I also interviewed at a great school this past weekend, and I really thought it was "in the bag"--the POI put extra profs on my interview schedule and personally took me around to show me stuff on campus. The next day, I sent out a thank-you email to the POI. The POI wrote back and was basically like, "I might not take anyone this year, and if I do, it will be someone who is more well-versed in X as opposed to Y. It was a pleasure meeting you blah blah blah"... I was livid. Many back and forth emails later, I found out that he might not be able to take anyone because of funding for next year, and he didn't know about the funding until after the invites had been sent out--and he only invited 4 people as opposed to the regular 7-10.
I have a friend in her 5th year PhD program (for film) who just told me that her program head told her that since she was planning on getting married, they might not be able to afford her funding next year because the health insurance to cover both of them would be too high. My friend told me that many schools are going through funding issues for Fall 2011.
This all made me very, very depressed.
Some of you had given me advice about going to another school this weekend--I was torn between accepting the invite and not because the prof told me I was at a disadvantage coming in because although she "loved" my application, the department also had funding issues and she was going to concentrate on another area of research (child) which I have no experience in (I'm adult)... but would I like to come for an interview anyway? I had initially said yes, to get the interview experience and blah blah blah. My feelings have changed now, and I think I'm going to cancel the interview and save a lot of time (I'd have to take 2 days off work) and money (over $200, no reimbursements). I mean there is just NO WAY I would get accepted to someone doing child research when I both a) only have experience in adult b) am only interested in adult and c) am going to be competing with several other people who have years of experience and interest in it. Right? Right??? I just don't see the point anymore.
I applied to 13 schools. I got interviews at 5 so far (and I think that's all I'm going to get). Out of those 5, I got waitlisted at 1, rejected from 1, haven't heard back from 1 but I'm thinking rejection, 1 upcoming in March, and the other one I think I'm going to cancel.
I emailed the other 8. One told me I wasn't invited to interview (duh), one told me I was rejected and the letter was in the mail (the one that got my name wrong), one said the faculty were still deciding and I'd hear back this week (though it's already been posted), one told me I was on the waitlist, one told me they don't notify until March, and the other 3 haven't gotten back to me.
When I got 5 interviews I was so excited--just to get anything was amazing. So naive! This is my 3rd time applying to PhD programs. I'm 28. I have a MA. I'm getting too old for this crap circus. Anyone feel me? 😱
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Congrats to everyone who accomplished anything this year, and especially to those who have gotten offers at schools--I am in awe!!