First of all relax, your scores are OK for most programs. Remember that scores do not make the candidate, but they can break you. Your grades are not stellar but they are good enough to get you invites for interviews at many programs. You may have a tough time getting interviews from some the more competitive programs, but you should be OK for the most part.
Second, be cautious with what you hear and always consider the source of the information. Unless you hear it directly from a Faculty member or Program Director, I would definitely be suspect of any information that people will volunteer on this site. If you want real advice regarding your individual situation, I recommend that you contact a Mentor or Faculty member that has experience in the resident selection process.
Third and last, contrary to popular belief, it is not "easier" for males to get a spot in OB/Gyn. Yes, there are less of us out here, but I do not know of any program that is willing to "lower the standards" just to get more males. Do you honestly think that serious academic programs will purposefully pass over an excellent female candidate to take on a lesser male candidate? This whole concept is ludicrous and certainly does all men in OB/Gyn a disservice. In fact, many programs will avoid exposing the candidate's ethnicity, gender, age, citizenship, and picture when they are making the first cuts (i.e. sending out interview invites) in an effort to avoid any biases that these pieces of information may engender . These cuts are usually made by considering the information that is written on the application alone (i.e. grades, USMLE scores, evaluations, personal statement, and "other considerations"). Some programs go as far as hiding the candidates name completely to further avoid any biases that their names may create. Obviously the programs will know your gender by the time the interview rolls around, but if they have extended you an invite, it is only because of your merits and not because of your gender. After the interview, you may be "easier to remember" since you will be a minority, but this means nothing come rank night. Your whole application will still have to measure up to every one else's and will have to surpass all the others if you wish to be ranked high.
I hope this helps and good luck!
