I think the same thing could have been said without the sarcasm.
Maybe I should have added "If you have very strong doubts that last for a very long period of time maybe you should not apply."
I just have to start assuming that every single thing I say on here will be twisted into insulting someone, somehow.
Sarcasm is part of my sense of humor, I am sorry it offends you. You wanted a lack of sarcasm:
I had a DECADE of serious doubts + growing up with extreme poverty + lack of familial support of any kind + having to pay and pave my own way. I fought against going to vet school. I didn't want to spend 4 more years in classes, particularly not lectures. I don't learn well this way, I learn by doing and researching on my own. I didn't want to go into a career where pay was decreasing throughout the 90's (when I was in college) while costs were increasing drasticly. I didn't want to not be able to support myself. I didn't want to pile more debt on my undergrad debt.
I thought I would be happy in other animal related careers. I have worked in several and have been happy, but still kept being drawn back into working with DVMs, but I have never been satisfied in working with, just as I have never been satisfied with not running my own show when it came to employment. I have not, since college, worked any job where I wasn't one of the folks in charge or working independently. Then there was a day when I just snapped; I was tired of battling my own tendencies, fighting with myeslf. I decided my interests were worth pursueing, and that I deserved to be a vet and attend vet school, and that I had to give it a try. So I relocated, finished some odd pre-reqs (liek business) and applied. I knew I would only apply once. I was admitted.
Now, for some folks, it is a smooth path after that, but I don't do well on smooth paths. in the middle of my first sememster, my husband's income was cut by 20+%, and we had to start using the funds I had saved to attend vet school just to cover our costs, and I had to start taking out student loans. Then last semester my husband was laid off. In the mean time, I was really sick for all of winter break last year, and have spent every spare moment running my business and conducting my thesis research.
I don't think there is more than a two week period when I wonder at this; why am I pushing myself through vet school? Is this really worth it? I feel tortured sitting through hours of lectures, I can try my hardest and still panic on an exam, I don't get to do much that gives me any sense of accomplishment while in vet school (grades mean little to me), and I still have to keep my business credentials up and my government clearances up, so I have those responsibilities. I hate death by PPT teaching, and I hate being treated like a fresh 20 something that hasn't had to pay the bills yet (I've heard three times today 'you're not in undergrad'...well, yes, and I haven't been in a decade.)
Does that really mean I don't belong here? or does it mean that for me vet school isn't the best time of my life, but a gambit that I must pass through to do what I do love. Don't get me wrong, I love the information, I love the skills, I just don't love learning them in this manner. I'd be better doing an apprenticing system, but that isn't an option. I had serious doubts and for me, those doubts have been validated. Doesn't change that this is the only method of entry into the profession here. Doesn't change that I am passing my classes, and should graduate with a DVM. I am meeting some awesome people and having some amazing experiences. Just means that for me vet school and vet med are not the same thing; they require different skills, and my skill set isn't so great in this realm.
I didn't think you were singling anyone out. I am just as confident that there are a decent number of folks that will have extreme doubts, especially in the next couple of months, and that they shouldn't feel that a lack of doubts = DVM material. Also, while some of us do chose the path you illustrated, that can also be a bit of a 'mistake' (I don't regret the life experience, so I don't really see it as a mistake.) In a couple of months we'll start getting the 'do I really want to do this?' threads. and some people will believe, with all their heart, that anyone with any doubts shouldn't 'take spots' from others (not saying you said that) while others of us will think that having serious doubts suggests an awareness of the challenges ahead, in and out of school, and that doubts are normal/appropriate.