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I'm starting to panic about shadowing hours. When I get from from school this summer and I submit my app in June, can I put down the hours that I have scheduled/intended to in advance to shadow for July with my dentist?
doc toothache seriously you're just wasting everyone's time this **** is getting old go live your life please
You do know that reading posts is OPTIONAL.I agree... Doc toothache should keep it moving 😉
On what planet, when listing accomplishments, is it acceptable to include items which are barely on an imaginary "to do" list? On this one, at least, such inclusion is considered lying by commission.So is bullying kids on the internet but here we are again
On what planet, when listing accomplishments, is it acceptable to include items which are barely on an imaginary "to do" list? On this one, at least, such inclusion is considered lying by commission.
OP, you can potentially squeeze 40-50 hours in before June if you start now.
You know honestly instead of sarcasm, how about just not even commenting? If I see people on here giving snarky answers I just glide right over it. Its not worth feeding into the negative energy. I never ever give answers like that. Why? Because its a bad habit to have. I would rather hold my tongue. Maybe you guys will learn someday.
So is bullying kids on the internet but here we are again
I think that it had been building up on here for others. All we're saying is the delivery is not that polite. If you don't have something nice to say, then don't say it. Its an old saying in the South 😉 . I think he has been frustrating other people because we are on here to seek support and all of the terseness is not appreciated at this point.
And the point, was to put down hours that I will do in a week or so. And to be honest, at this point I have gathered from others (not taking toothaches advice AT all ) that I will just hold off one week to get those 30 hours I need.
He had good advice. Everyone who wants to get into the health care field needs to develop tough skin in order to be able to deal with unruly patients. If doc's sarcastic/wry/snarky advice (which was meant to help you) is too much, you need to realize that in the future people will be mean/upset at you and you're just going to have to take it and swallow it.
And if you give people courtesy and respect, they're more likely to give it back . People love other people with good attitudes. People will be mean and I will just be radiant and happy 😉. And it will take me where I want to go
I understand that Doc Toothache has contributed a lot. None of us denied that facts. People were just commenting on his attitude.Doc toothache has done more for pre-dents on these forums than probably anyone else. You may not like his delivery, but his incredible contribution (the posts in his signature are just a sampling) to this community is undeniable. Plenty of pre-dents come and go, but toothache has been here for 7+ years delivering solid information and advice that only someone who is in the field and who is in direct contact with schools and admissions (something to consider) can offer. As far as 'niceness' goes, there's really nothing nicer than someone in the field with years of experience who sticks around to provide reams of data to people who will use the information and then abandon the forum once they get into dental school or have their one or two questions answered. Without some continuity from folks like doc toothache this place would just be a bunch of pre-dents giving misguided and unsupported advice to other pre-dents.
I understand that Doc Toothache has contributed a lot. None of us denied that facts. People were just commenting on his attitude.
doc toothache seriously you're just wasting everyone's time this **** is getting old go live your life please
Doc Toothache, the application process and keeping our grades up and trying to nail the DAT are hard enough for us. This is a difficult time for all of us as it more or less determines our futures. Do us all a favor and, as someone else mentioned, go live your life and stay out of ours. We don't need you complicating and making things even harder for us as we get closer and closer to finding out if our hard work and efforts have been worthwhile with an acceptance. So unless you have anything actually helpful and kind to say to others on this forum, please don't respond at all. If you were still our age and going through the application process and admissions committees were somehow able to witness how plain mean and bitter you are on this forum, I'm pretty sure you wouldn't have become a dentist.
Man, that was building up for a while as I've been reading your recent responses to people. So glad I finally got that out.
I'd have to agree that doctoothache is a toothache to everyone here. I suppose he has nothing better to do than lurk the forums for youngsters in need of help, just to make them feel worse about their situations by posting snarky replies. He has contributed much, but I don't see him contributing anything nowadays except extra kicks to the stomach and extra spit in the eyes.
You're a dentist. You should be on the pre-dent forum to help. Otherwise, go onto the resident/practicing forum and find another miserable and bored dentist to speak with. Just because you were stickied doesn't mean you should stick around. Thanks for your contributions, but unless you're here to continue being helpful, what is the point?
That's fine, I'm not saying that a good attitude isn't the way to go. Being kind, courteous and respectful will get you very far in life. All I'm saying is don't disregard good advice just because it isn't presented in a kind, courteous and respectful way. Good advice is still good advice, regardless of how it's given.
It's not good advice because he has a chip on his shoulder. No one is ever going to be receptive to someone giving advice like that. How many times have people been told they cant do something by negative people? ALL the time. And guess what, for every 10 doubters there's going to be someone who can encourage with a tone that is respectful. He has been on here trying to put other people down and they're getting tired of it. Thanks everyone, you guys really lift me up and defend me on here. I cant wait to see you all on interviews! 🙂
He's not putting you down. He's telling you not to lie on your application... how can you disregard that advice? Even if he's the rudest person on earth that particular piece of advice still has merit.
It's not good advice because he has a chip on his shoulder. No one is ever going to be receptive to someone giving advice like that. How many times have people been told they cant do something by negative people? ALL the time. And guess what, for every 10 doubters there's going to be someone who can encourage with a tone that is respectful. He has been on here trying to put other people down and they're getting tired of it. Thanks everyone, you guys really lift me up and defend me on here. I cant wait to see you all on interviews! 🙂
He has helped me in the past and has replied to a couple of my posts before. I appreciate the help he has given. His delivery, though, leaves more to be desired. We'll take the advice (that's why we're here), but as you can see, many can't appreciate it as much because it's presented in a sarcastic and condescending way.
If he REALLY wanted to be direct he should have said, "Don't lie on your application. Wait until you've complete the hours before adding them to your app." You see, that is direct. Even adding in something after like, "You wouldn't add degrees on your application that you've yet to earn or plan to pursue later, right?", would be appropriate also.
Being cocky and arrogant is different than be stern and direct. That's the difference here. You're essentially telling all of the complaining pre-dents that allowing yourself to be disrespected and not treated properly is OK, as long you get something out of it. That's a recipe for disaster as a business owner (which I'm sure the majority of us hope to end up becoming).
I've graduated already and in hindsight, one of the greatest things my major in business has taught me is that the host of service has as much freedom to choose who he serves as the consumer in who they seek services from. This goes deeper than just businesses serving consumers. This touches on how you allow people to treat you (customers interaction with you), how you treat others (your interactions with customers), and who you surround yourself with (who you ultimately choose to do business with).
The thread has gotten seemingly complicated. In reality, it's really very simple. Doc Toothache knows what he does and he chooses to continue on. That's fine, just don't expect your consumers to be as receptive to your style of interaction as you would hope. The newbies will bow at his feet, but after they are here for a while they will get the sour taste in their mouths, too.
Maybe because they were the ones that got "bullied"?Actually, most of the time I see people complaining about him, it's the newbies.
Who said I was lying? If I had planned on shadowing the week after I submit my app then thats not lying.. It is is if you dont do those hours. You should read these posts more carefully instead of assuming. I called schools today and most of them said it was fine to do this and its actually common to do it. If I am planning on taking certain courses in the fall and put those down as planned coursework, then I have to follow through on them. It's the same thing.
Going through life with a flash point lower than that of ether, may not be the best recipe for warding off premature gray hair. If an innocuous, albeit, sarcastic remark, sent you into the stratosphere, it does make one wonder what response to expect when put to the test in dental school setting or in practice. If this turns out to be one of the worst experience in your life, you and your teammates should consider yourselves awfully lucky. Life is likely to provide plenty of trials and tribulations- choose your battles wisely. Incidentally, the South also has a saying about never telling a lie, a tenet which appears to have conveniently been ignored.
Trying to rationalize your proposed action, invoking the claimed support from "dental schools" and the absence of contriteness, indicate a failure in understand that lying is unbecoming conduct for anyone considering a career in dentistry. You seem to be oblivious to the gravity of the your proposed action. For the comments you claim to have received from "most dental schools" to have any traction, it would have had to come from a faculty with authority. Assuming for the moment that such was the case, there two possibilities: 1. the faculty in question was subjecting you to a test; 2. the faculty in question slept through the lectures on ethics. It is unlikely that there is a single dental school dean that would condone such an action. From what you are saying, it does appear that some staff members of the schools in question are way past due for a refresher course in ethics.
From what I've seen, there's no way you are successfully practicing dentistry. Otherwise you would not have put so much energy into what I'm doing. And it did come from admissions faculty, theres nothing wrong with it. I think you are upset because you are wrong and miserable in what you are doing from what I've gathered on here. Why don't you take a break ? And in a month or two come back and be constructive and give accurate advice! 🙂 🙂
Looks like the psych course is paying dividends big time.From what I've seen, there's no way you are successfully practicing dentistry. Otherwise you would not have put so much energy into what I'm doing. And it did come from admissions faculty, theres nothing wrong with it. I think you are upset because you are wrong and miserable in what you are doing from what I've gathered on here. Why don't you take a break ? And in a month or two come back and be constructive and give accurate advice! 🙂 🙂
Looks like the psych course is paying dividends big time.
We don't think you are at all a successful dentist, since you are acting this way and also have seemingly so much time to put all this foolishness up here. Put that energy into a meditation class or something 😉 And quit
Sure is. Maybe you should take a few. Definitely might help sort a few things out for you! When I finish dental school, I can guarantee that I won't be on here bullying these predents. 🙂