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I'm revisiting some of my secondaries, I have 2 main outlines that deals with the following topics. One is from almost 15-ish years ago, but much more personally meaningful. The other is more recent and professional, but more common.
1) When I first moved to Canada when I was in the 6th grade, I attended a predominantly white school, I experienced a bit of a cultural shock/immature racism from the other students. Things like making fun of the food I eat, talking in another language with my parents on the phone and making fun of the language, etc. My first gut reaction was to react with hostility, but I later took another approach of educating/sharing my food/media etc. with the students, and we ended up bonding/growing closer together with it. The racism also stopped once I started doing that. I've taken this approach in almost every new culturally new situation since then.
2) When I worked for my father and his business partner in ~2016-2017, I was responsible for building a database for their business. I vastly underestimated the amount of time developing a graphic interface would take, and focused all of my attention on the backend. This later came back to bite me and I couldn't realistically meet the deadline. I was admonished, and through this failure I learned how to better partition a large project into manageable sizes/chunks.
I am leaning towards #1 for my adversity essay, and #2 for my challenge/failure essay. I am just wondering if #1 is too far back in the past for me to write about it? It was quite a significant moment for me (first time experiencing some form of racism, and overcoming it), but I'm worried maybe 15 years ago is too far back (I'm a non-trad btw). Thanks for your tips.
1) When I first moved to Canada when I was in the 6th grade, I attended a predominantly white school, I experienced a bit of a cultural shock/immature racism from the other students. Things like making fun of the food I eat, talking in another language with my parents on the phone and making fun of the language, etc. My first gut reaction was to react with hostility, but I later took another approach of educating/sharing my food/media etc. with the students, and we ended up bonding/growing closer together with it. The racism also stopped once I started doing that. I've taken this approach in almost every new culturally new situation since then.
2) When I worked for my father and his business partner in ~2016-2017, I was responsible for building a database for their business. I vastly underestimated the amount of time developing a graphic interface would take, and focused all of my attention on the backend. This later came back to bite me and I couldn't realistically meet the deadline. I was admonished, and through this failure I learned how to better partition a large project into manageable sizes/chunks.
I am leaning towards #1 for my adversity essay, and #2 for my challenge/failure essay. I am just wondering if #1 is too far back in the past for me to write about it? It was quite a significant moment for me (first time experiencing some form of racism, and overcoming it), but I'm worried maybe 15 years ago is too far back (I'm a non-trad btw). Thanks for your tips.