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Dear Dr,
Ah, this process is almost over for all of us! My last question to you was about interviewing -- well that interview led to an acceptance, which led to the offer of a great fellowship! I am so excited to now be able to go to this school -- it's the first place I interviewed at, and the first one to get back to applicants. I just found out about the fellowship via phone, and while I responded that I was thrilled, honored, etc., I still needed a week or two since i haven't heard back from any of the other schools yet. I went on a bunch of interviews, and I was left with 4 schools, including this one, that I would be over the moon to attend. So my question is, was it rude to ask for a few more weeks? I'm a nice midwestern person, and it's painful to not give others what they want, but I also want to honor the hard work I've put in by giving due to the 3 other programs i can see myself at. This whole experience is so intense, now I worry that not accepting the offer right away may somehow put the offer of funding at risk. Really, all I need is one more week or so -- by march 22 it should be all sorted out (everyone back to me re acceptance, rejection, waitlist). It's just hard to make a decision without hearing from the other schools yet.
I'm doing my best to try to knock one of the ones I haven't heard from yet out of the running, they are all different -- one has a better clinic, the other is closer and I got a better vibe in terms of match, one has a broader, more intellectual training, one is more focused and may do the best for my career. so I guess I have a second question, too: Any tips for making these difficult choices?
Thank you so much. I hope all is going well for you as well!
You have until April 15 to decide, and you should not let anyone or anything pressure you to do so before hand. This is an important decision, and you really want to have all of the info in hand before you make it. Try not to hold onto more than a couple of offers at once. But in the meantime, wait until you feel your mind is made. And I do not believe it is OK for them to rescind a fellowship before April 15. I think that would be inconsistent with CUDCP guidelines.