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I don't think most white people assume they know what it feels like to be a minority, or at least I don't. I think everyone should consider how their wording affects others, regardless of their ethnicity. The way you worded your statement makes it sound like white people should put more thought into their statements, while other races don't need to be as careful; which I don't agree with (but perhaps I am reading it wrong). If we want things to truly be equal we can't give a pass to some and not to others.
Your first statement is incorrect, they do, which is why throughout these threads people feel it is their place to comment on URM status having never experience or had intimiate contact with it. I admire that you are not a part of that group, but it is the exception not the rule.
Everyone should definitely be considerate of others (and I have had significant conversations about biases within minority communities as well), but in the case or issues of race I do feel that (however inappropriate) minorities have earned some indignation and responses to any racism (slight or great, if such distinctions even exist) should be considered in view of the history. In the same way I consider most white people's opinions in the context of the culture in which they are raised, and need to respond to a lifetime of conditioning to racial prejudice that in no way reflects on whether they are a "good" or "bad" person.
Additionally until other racial groups start sticking up for minorites in larger numbers (http://www.cnn.com/2009/HEALTH/01/07/racism.study/index.html), our responses to a dominant majority (that consistently views us as ignorant) need to be louder and more direct to be heard, as has been clearly shown through the many people I have seem URM-bashing in these threads despite evidence of their ignorance and bias.
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