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Dies Irae said:Even IF it's hypocrisy, as an immigrant or recent decendant of an immigrant, isn't there the slightest repsonsibility on the part of the immigrant to attempt to take part in mainstream society? Not every social organization considered "American" is all-white, depending on the demographics of the area of its members, but every Asian social organization is all Asian, every Hispanic social organization is all Hispanic, every African American social organization is all African American, because they are literally advertised as such. For what reason would a white person want to join something called the "Asian-American society?"
Why would one have to join a society? Who is talking about the "Asian-American society" The party I was referring to was a bunch of friends who threw a party together. They just happened to be Asian. It had nothing to do with a formal Asian American club let alone a university setting. They were drinking beer, speaking English and eating Pizza. I guess that's not very American in your eyes? What is it that they are not doing that isn't very American.
I just find it odd that you lay all the responsibility with these minority groups to integrate into main stream American society yet you don't ask the mainstream aka white people to spend more time learning and trying to integrate with people who are not white.
I personally don't care if white people hang out only with white people or if Asians only hang out with Asians. I have never complained to my white friends that they have not done more to learn or accept my Hispanic culture. Likewise, the last thing I want to hear is them complaining about Hispanics not integrating into the "mainstream" culture. The only thing I take issue with is when someone complains that minority groups need to do more to integrate into the mainstream. Now that's truly funny because for decades I have yet to hear people encourage the mainstream to integrate their minority members by simply taking the effort to learn more about their culture. It's this double standard that I truly find disturbing. In other words, why do minorities always have to make the first move.
Now in conclusion, let me add that I do not mean to generalize. Obviously, not all white people follow this mantra. I do have some white friends who have taken the effort to learn about my heritage and accept my culture but for the sake of argument, I have made some generalizations. If I have offended anyone, I do apologize and I will end my argument here.