first of all, wow it's been a whiiiile. haven't been on the pre-allopath for about a year+. howdy peeps!
second: I probably fit in this boat to some extent. I remember people telling me to apply DO because I wasn't going to make it to an MD school.
Third: How I did it? Well, I think I see a lot of things that premed students do, that really aren't beneficial:
1) They talk a lot. (Yes, I talk a lot too) Meaning: they talk about how they're so committed to becoming a doctor, but their actions, their activities don't show for it.
2) I applied to 30+ places. This means, 30+ places I have a "shot" at going to. Now, if you're on the bottom of the list, that means YOU DO NOT PUT THE USNWR TOP 30 IN YOUR LIST OF PLACES YOU'RE APPLYING TO. What this means, is apply to 30 'chance' schools, and add a few reach ones in the top 30. Yes it's expensive, but seriously I don't want to hear it. I worked days, nights, and weekends to save my money for interviews, so if you're not fortunate to have mom and dad pay for you, trust me i've been there and sometimes it sucks, but you develop so much more character from going through it on your own and earning your way through it. Also, be aware of state schools that do not frequently accept OOS students.
3) They apply too late. I've probably personally advised/mentored like 50+ students and a recurring theme I see in unsuccessful candidates is that they haven't done their research on what the process entails. This means, apply on the first week, (in fact, the first day) it opens. figure out who is writin your letters. WHEN WILL YOUR MCAT BE READY BY WITH RESPECT TO YOUR APPLICATION? Don't assume things, find out exact dates and procedures yourself. My surgery attending said this: what happens when you assume? "you make an @$$ out of u and me." find answers to questions. nobody is pointing a gun to your head that you need to apply this year or else someone is going to take hostage of your family and hurt them....calm down people. if you don't have your stuff together by the beginning, don't bother. Wait, and present yourself as a smart applicant the following year. I'll be honest. I took a year off, thinking that's all i'll need. realized my mcat was going to be late, decided i'd be better off polishing all my stuff so i can apply and get into a school. (I'm quite happy with where i ended up, lol) The following year, I felt I did pretty darn well with my application cycle, and the extra gap year, make the process 10X easier, having not applied and having to redo essays and whatnot, with additional anxiety of being unsuccessful prior.
And sometimes I really just feel like: "-_- SMH wtf" when I tell people, "hey I don't think your stuff is all going to be in time, your stats are modest and you're not like shining with all of these bells and whistles on your app. take some more time and polish it for a better app next year." They get all defensive and 'hate me,' and then they apply, don't get in, and later when i follow up with them, they have nothing to say. (or they panick and they're like HELP MEE) Both are really bad outcomes, imo. I'm not trying to be a hater, i'm just trying to be realistic. Having gone through the process, and you can ask anyone, i swear ANYONE, about the process in applying, and nothing is more PAINFUL than having to reapply. Yet people don't think about that, and just apply anyway. Any of my classmates who had to reapply can tell you it sucked. financially, physically, and emotionally.
I think you can ask any attending physician out there that the quality of knowing yourself, is absolutely crucial. You need to know if your interventions will pay off in the long run for your patient. On the same token, I really respect an applicant who has that maturity to know what their limits are. I think its a very important quality to have as a physician.
A physician mentor once told me, "It's not a race. It isn't a popularity contest, or a status game. Medicine is a lifelong commitment, a way of life. Take your time and apply when you're ready."
I'm sure there are other things I can think of but i forgot them and i know i've already written enough. hiiiii again everyone! glad to be back. lol