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Sorry if this is a little bit of a rant. It is a question, it's just hard to remove how irritated it makes me!
So I just had my "exit" counseling from my top choice (also the only school I even got offered to interview with ) after being rejected. They said, and I quote, "The committee was very impressed with your academic credentials and had no reservations whatsoever about your ability to handle the coursework." She then went on to say, "The problem was they weren't convinced of your commitment," and "you need to demonstrate with your actions that this is what you should be doing."
Here's the rant part: Ok, fine. I made some mistakes on my application, namely, I put things I thought were relevant and verifiable. Example: I did not put down "tutor" in my activities, even though I spend many hours each semester helping various classmates and teaching them difficult material, because I wasn't OFFICIALLY a tutor (ie. I did not keep hours and get paid, etc.) Yet in my interviews, I was asked why I did not include it (?!?!?). Anyway, the issue was, for them, that I wasn't "committed" enough. I guess I just don't understand how leaving a career field I was successful in and going back to school (when my son was only 18 mo old, no less) AFTER already having a degree to go study a completely unrelated field does not show commitment. I also made time to volunteer in a hospital and in the community, do shadowing, etc. I'm also a single mom more than half the time (husband is military), so that time was not easy to come by and usually came out of my sleep. It is frustrating because they always say they want quality experiences, not quantity. But apparently I did not have enough quantity of quality stuff for them.
Basically what I came away with was that maybe I was too well-rounded for them, though they didn't phrase it quite that way. It feels like they *say* they want unique people with varied life experiences, but if you are that person, they don't believe you are dedicated because you aren't 20 years old and graduating from college early with 18 publications, having framed your life since grade school with the goal of going to med school.
Here's the question part: how do you show that you ARE dedicated? I would love to go on a medical mission trip or something to prove my worth or something, but I can't! I have kids, a house, dogs, life in general, not to mention I can't afford it. She recommended becoming a CNA, which I am looking into, but it sort of seems like nothing will ever be enough....
Sorry for the long post, I just needed to tell someone who would understand (possibly).
So I just had my "exit" counseling from my top choice (also the only school I even got offered to interview with ) after being rejected. They said, and I quote, "The committee was very impressed with your academic credentials and had no reservations whatsoever about your ability to handle the coursework." She then went on to say, "The problem was they weren't convinced of your commitment," and "you need to demonstrate with your actions that this is what you should be doing."
Here's the rant part: Ok, fine. I made some mistakes on my application, namely, I put things I thought were relevant and verifiable. Example: I did not put down "tutor" in my activities, even though I spend many hours each semester helping various classmates and teaching them difficult material, because I wasn't OFFICIALLY a tutor (ie. I did not keep hours and get paid, etc.) Yet in my interviews, I was asked why I did not include it (?!?!?). Anyway, the issue was, for them, that I wasn't "committed" enough. I guess I just don't understand how leaving a career field I was successful in and going back to school (when my son was only 18 mo old, no less) AFTER already having a degree to go study a completely unrelated field does not show commitment. I also made time to volunteer in a hospital and in the community, do shadowing, etc. I'm also a single mom more than half the time (husband is military), so that time was not easy to come by and usually came out of my sleep. It is frustrating because they always say they want quality experiences, not quantity. But apparently I did not have enough quantity of quality stuff for them.
Basically what I came away with was that maybe I was too well-rounded for them, though they didn't phrase it quite that way. It feels like they *say* they want unique people with varied life experiences, but if you are that person, they don't believe you are dedicated because you aren't 20 years old and graduating from college early with 18 publications, having framed your life since grade school with the goal of going to med school.
Here's the question part: how do you show that you ARE dedicated? I would love to go on a medical mission trip or something to prove my worth or something, but I can't! I have kids, a house, dogs, life in general, not to mention I can't afford it. She recommended becoming a CNA, which I am looking into, but it sort of seems like nothing will ever be enough....
Sorry for the long post, I just needed to tell someone who would understand (possibly).