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One of my friends, also my co-worker, is considering attending a caribbean medical school in the fall. We both had borderline MD stats (~3.7/32) but I went ahead and applied to DO schools while he only applied to MD stateside. I ended up getting accepted somewhere while he didn't and he is now going to his caribbean school interview (I'm 99% sure he will be accepted).
How I do I bring up the fact that he probably shouldn't go to the Caribbean? He carries the idea that "it doesn't matter where you go for medical school." I want to be a good friend and tell him to apply again. But I also don't want to hurt his feelings or sound condescending even though I really think he is disillusioned. To make matters worse we have several co-workers who got into MD schools stateside who don't say a single thing about this matter to him! One of our co-workers (who got into a Top 5 medical school!) simply told him that it is fine if he goes to caribbean school as long as he works hard. I think that's such poor advice. How would you guys approach a friend that was contemplating this route?
How I do I bring up the fact that he probably shouldn't go to the Caribbean? He carries the idea that "it doesn't matter where you go for medical school." I want to be a good friend and tell him to apply again. But I also don't want to hurt his feelings or sound condescending even though I really think he is disillusioned. To make matters worse we have several co-workers who got into MD schools stateside who don't say a single thing about this matter to him! One of our co-workers (who got into a Top 5 medical school!) simply told him that it is fine if he goes to caribbean school as long as he works hard. I think that's such poor advice. How would you guys approach a friend that was contemplating this route?