I used to be a regular SDN user, but I had to change my ID because I forgot my password and also, people know who I am under my old name and I got myself into a situation that I'm embarrassed about. Against my better judgment, I let my feelings for my research preceptor take over. He claimed he had feelings for me too and we became intimate last month. He then took me away for New Year's so we could go somewhere that no one knew us and we wouldn't be afraid to be seen in public together. When we got back home, it's like everything changed. He was biting my head off for little things and when I asked if I had done something, he said no but he's still giving me the cold shoulder a week later. It was really bothering me today so I talked to my friend about it because I needed someone to talk to. She got judgmental and said that she can't talk to me anymore about it because it goes against the honor code for her to know this and not turn us in to the school. I then asked if she was going to say anything to the school and she said she had to think about it. I can't believe it. Can I get kicked out for this? Can he get fired? We're both consenting adults. I'm 26 and he's 35 and neither of us are married or anything like that. How much trouble are we in? When I tell him what I did in talking to my friend, he won't want anything to do with me anymore. But I have no choice. I have to warn him. I'm so upset. I don't know what to do. Has anyone else been in this kind of situation? I'm desperate for advice.