I disagree, not because of physiologic reasons, but rather because most people I know who drink coffee have additional psychological motivation for coffee usage. That is, they drink it not only when they want caffeine, but because it is a part of their morning routine, it is a comfort ritual (warm beverage), or they simply enjoy the taste/experience. To me, these sorts of non-pharmacological motivations increase baseline usage and are exactly why I prefer to keep caffeine in a format that has no benefit beyond the pharm effect.
As for the conversion, espresso actually has less caffeine content than a cup of drip, and light roast has mre caffeine than dark (even though dark 'tastes stronger'). You are usually better off having a double or triple shot of espresso than you are having a medium cup of drip, especially at Starbucks where they tend to have higher caffeine contents. Tea is more analogous to espresso or a soft drink...notably less than coffee but not nothing. A small Starbucks Pike Place (the one I looked up whenever it was I researched caffeine levels, because whatever else they have, they almost always have that, which I only even know because my mom hates it and bitches about it every time) has close to 200mg of caffeine in it (equivalent to one standard caffeine tab), whereas a shot of espresso is closer to 60 or 70. Tea varies by blend, but standard black tea is closer to 50 or 60. Sodas also vary a lot, but they're more in the tea/espresso range than the coffee range, Mountain Dew and supersized drinks excepted. 5hr energy has mg right on the label, but it's usually equivalent to the standard caffeine pills (200mg) unless labelled extra strength or whatnot. Tabs are easier to split in half, though.
So it's closer to 2-3 tea ≈ 2-3 espresso ≈ 1 small-med drip, depending on roast, with soda varying widely in serving size and composition.
**values approximate and based off of whatever nutitional charts Starbucks had online when I was in college and curious about this crap**
The only reason I can think of is that most people sip coffee, as opposed to downing all 200mg in one swallow, so peak is probably lower. Otherwise, my experience has been that it seems largely psych effect (i.e. people who "can't deal with caffeine" but don't know relative caffeine ratios, and always seem to have these super jittery effects from drinks they describe as 'really strong', like an espresso drink, but no issue with a large black drip, and pale at the idea of a caffeine pill or 5hr).