HELP!
I applied to dental school without being totally sure I wanted to be a dentist. I literally put everything together at the last minute-I applied and took my DATs after Christmas. There was a good deal of pressure from my family to apply-it was the topic of Thanksgiving dinner.
I was hoping to be sure of wanting to go to school by this time, but I'm not. Apparently 3 months was not enough time to figure out my life's goals. I've done some shadowing, but currently my feelings about dentistry seem to be mild interest at this point. I'd like to spend the summer assisting or volunteering. It's one thing to spend a few hours watching a few procedures, but it's another to spend 40-45 hours in a week staring into people's mouths. I want to make sure I can handle that.
Anyway, I was just accepted at a dental school(Tufts), but I don't feel ready to attend any dental school yet. I feel that if I attend without being 100% committed and motivated, I will be one of those people who drop out in the first year.
There are also financial reasons-both Boston and Tufts are very expensive. I cannot deal with roommates, so I would have to find an affordable apartment that I would live in alone-which I am having trouble doing so! I have very limited money right now.
However, if I decline an offer of admission, will I be burning bridges towards any future possibility of acceptance? How should I write any letter turning down an offer? I'm thinking of just going to dental school anyway and just hoping that I really want to do it because I don't want to risk burning bridges.
I'm also still seriously considering studying Pharmacy. In fact, I was all set on entering a Pharm.D. program until Thanksgiving dinner where my family told me I would be foolish to waste 4 years on a Pharm.D. when I could go to medical/dental school and spend 4 years to get something much more lucrative/prestigious. I see their point. I totally ruled out medical school a long time ago-I got totally turned off by the cutthroat pre-med mentality. Also, I have no desire to touch oozing things.
I really love drugs-I worked for a pharmaceutical company for a while and love understanding all the molecular mechanisms of how drugs work. I'd like to do clinical pharmacy, study drugs, monitor drug therapies, and do research and publish. However, money, prestige, independence, and job security are all factors that make pharmacy less desirable and make dentistry more so.
I would appreciate any advice that anyone could give. I know that I'm the idiot who got into this mess. If it's at all possible to extricate myself from it, I'm open to any suggestions.
Thanks!
Mike
I applied to dental school without being totally sure I wanted to be a dentist. I literally put everything together at the last minute-I applied and took my DATs after Christmas. There was a good deal of pressure from my family to apply-it was the topic of Thanksgiving dinner.
I was hoping to be sure of wanting to go to school by this time, but I'm not. Apparently 3 months was not enough time to figure out my life's goals. I've done some shadowing, but currently my feelings about dentistry seem to be mild interest at this point. I'd like to spend the summer assisting or volunteering. It's one thing to spend a few hours watching a few procedures, but it's another to spend 40-45 hours in a week staring into people's mouths. I want to make sure I can handle that.
Anyway, I was just accepted at a dental school(Tufts), but I don't feel ready to attend any dental school yet. I feel that if I attend without being 100% committed and motivated, I will be one of those people who drop out in the first year.
There are also financial reasons-both Boston and Tufts are very expensive. I cannot deal with roommates, so I would have to find an affordable apartment that I would live in alone-which I am having trouble doing so! I have very limited money right now.
However, if I decline an offer of admission, will I be burning bridges towards any future possibility of acceptance? How should I write any letter turning down an offer? I'm thinking of just going to dental school anyway and just hoping that I really want to do it because I don't want to risk burning bridges.
I'm also still seriously considering studying Pharmacy. In fact, I was all set on entering a Pharm.D. program until Thanksgiving dinner where my family told me I would be foolish to waste 4 years on a Pharm.D. when I could go to medical/dental school and spend 4 years to get something much more lucrative/prestigious. I see their point. I totally ruled out medical school a long time ago-I got totally turned off by the cutthroat pre-med mentality. Also, I have no desire to touch oozing things.
I really love drugs-I worked for a pharmaceutical company for a while and love understanding all the molecular mechanisms of how drugs work. I'd like to do clinical pharmacy, study drugs, monitor drug therapies, and do research and publish. However, money, prestige, independence, and job security are all factors that make pharmacy less desirable and make dentistry more so.
I would appreciate any advice that anyone could give. I know that I'm the idiot who got into this mess. If it's at all possible to extricate myself from it, I'm open to any suggestions.
Thanks!
Mike