its not jealousy, its obvious, do you really think that he doesnt know what to do and is completly lost? do you really think that the advice everyone has given him here he didnt already know? its a matter of opinion, and hes the only one who can make that decision, ill make it more clear to you all:
Im at a movie theatre, and i want to see two movies, but i can only see one which one should i see? I know i havent given you any of the movie names, but how should i decide what movie to see? I so wish i could ask someone how to solve this unbelievable problem.