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Honestly that has been one of the most influential experiences on my decision of medicine. The type of volunteering I do is very intimate, it's called companionship. These patients are in their houses or in facilities and you are assigned to a specific patient. I actually get to write in the patients chart and get a face sheet with information on them. You get to know these people and they become your friends, yet they are constantly dying. It takes a toll. I never thought I would have to go to a grief counseling meeting that they have each week, but I started finding myself there especially after a patient I became close with for 4 months had passed away. At the ED I felt like there was no way for me to have an influence in someone's life without me becoming a physician. At hospice I found out how much of an affect simply having a friend and someone that cared could have on a person who is nearing the end of their life.
I wanted to volunteer at a hospice for a while, especially after taking a class on death, but I don't think I could handle it emotionally on a regular basis. I see death as a very natural part of life, but when those people aren't in a comfortable situation, it makes me sad. Knowing that people everywhere die without anyone caring makes me even sadder.