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I didn't say that your list was bad, just that the idea of approaching with a list is in and of itself bad.

It is hard to be happy when you are focused on pleasing yourself.

if you don't know what you want, it's also gonna be hard to make a successful marriage. i'm sure you already understand that judging by your "women don't always know what they want" statement.

hey floatie, whatchu doin this weekend baby girl? 😉

How: note the game.

hey, she's taken :meanie:

I already tried to hit on her with my chicken masala recipe

but she was too much of a biyotch

whatcha sayin about my woman? 😡


dude, i don't think women are the best source for dating advice.

lol yea, i think they just say whatever that makes them seem like a logical/smart/good girl, rather than the truth.
 
I told my dad about How's philosophy, he says, "That guy is a p**sy."
 
Your shallowness is coming through slowly here buddy.

I don't need to look at a study to understand that people gravitate towards attractive people, it is obvious. Being attractive gives you more authority and persuasive ability, it is a fact. I've studied persuasion in a lot of depth.

What I'm saying that your weakness as a human being is on display. If you change who you are as a human being based upon how good looking or not the person you are with is, then you are shallow.

You are letting something outside of you change your character. You bend and break like a reed in the wind based upon your circumstances.



are you kidding me man, how is acting differently with different women based (not only) on their attractiveness to YOU shallow? im not saying that is the only attractiveness, but attractiveness as a part of it. EVERYONE does it, and maybe you're just too naive to notice you probably do it more than all of us
 
good luck with that final. is it your last one? i know you'll do great, and you have my full support!

How: note the continued game.

👍It sure is! Thanks for your full support! I really appreciate it! 😉

And that's how it's done.

floaton, did you ever get the henna done?

No, not yet. 🙁 I'm going to wait until important events like graduation and the wedding I'm going to in June are over to get it.
 
i guess floatie didnt tell you...


i have 2 "best friend" girls that give me great female advice. i've known them for like 10 years though
 
give give give recieve = wuss that is desperate to get a girl and will do anything to please her so that she doesn't leave his sorry azz

We have acknowledged this earlier I believe. But yes, confident women don't fall for that bull.
 
How, why are you pinpointing this "acting different" around different women directly on attractiveness?

What if it is some random quirk about a girl you find intriguing that makes you act differently? Or some personality trait that makes you react differently, etc.

You are not thinking things clearly, and merely trying to argue, I feel
 
I told my dad about How's philosophy, he says, "That guy is a p**sy."

:laugh::laugh::laugh:

it has nothing to do with fear, it is irrelevant to our discussion.

it might be relevant. we're trying to gauge your experience so we know if you're dead serious about the crap you're spewing, or if you just haven't had any experience at all and you believe in disney love.
 
I'm talking about your character. I.e. treating a human being in an excellent fashion because they are good looking and treating a human being in a poor fashion because they are not. Do people do it? Obviously.

Btw, Lebron is much better than Kobe.
lebron is a pu**y too.
 
I'm not surprised. But neither am I offended.

My wife should EXPECT that I talk to her. I EXPECT to have sex with my wife. These are demands that I am entitled to. If I marry you, you are agreeing that you will have sex with me, that you will talk to me, that you will make me a sandwich if I ask you politely. I am entitled to these things if I marry you. If she doesn't want to do these things, then we don't get married, it's a really simple concept.
 
I agree that someone can charm you and it may cause you to act different.

What I am saying is clearly demonstrated in my statement, "it is wrong to treat another human being exceptionally because they look good and treat another human being poorly because they look bad."
if i want to date the pretty girl and there is an ugly girl around you better believe it is not wrong for me to treat the pretty girl differently. she is the one i want.
 
I agree that someone can charm you and it may cause you to act different.

What I am saying is clearly demonstrated in my statement, "it is wrong to treat another human being exceptionally because they look good and treat another human being poorly because they look bad."

It is wrong. But again, I am not going to eat pizza that doesn't taste good, but I will eat pizza that is delicious.

Now, I love Mushroom and Olives on my pizza, and can't stand Pineapple. Other people love Pineapple, so it works itself out generally speaking. It's not about looks, but more about what you are looking for.
 
I agree that someone can charm you and it may cause you to act different.

What I am saying is clearly demonstrated in my statement, "it is wrong to treat another human being exceptionally because they look good and treat another human being poorly because they look bad."


no one said anything about treating anyone poorly (or at least I didnt), and I dont think its about deliberately treating anyone a certain way, just natural to treat people you feel a certain way about differently
 
if i want to date the pretty girl and there is an ugly girl around you better believe it is not wrong for me to treat the pretty girl differently. she is the one i want.
i'm not saying i would be mean or inhumane to the ugly girl, but give me a break man. you know it HAS to happen.
 
I agree that someone can charm you and it may cause you to act different.

What I am saying is clearly demonstrated in my statement, "it is wrong to treat another human being exceptionally because they look good and treat another human being poorly because they look bad."

What does this "look good" refer to? In my mind, you are only pinpointing 'attractiveness' and omitting a slew of other factors.

Many men treat their significant others differently than another woman not because of their attractiveness alone, but attractiveness + their personality.

You are missing the point entirely
 
It is wrong. But again, I am not going to eat pizza that doesn't taste good, but I will eat pizza that is delicious.

Now, I love Mushroom and Olives on my pizza, and can't stand Pineapple. Other people love Pineapple, so it works itself out generally speaking. It's not about looks, but more about what you are looking for.

no one said anything about treating anyone poorly (or at least I didnt), and I dont think its about deliberately treating anyone a certain way, just natural to treat people you feel a certain way about differently

yep yeppers
 
:laugh::laugh::laugh:



it might be relevant. we're trying to gauge your experience so we know if you're dead serious about the crap you're spewing, or if you just haven't had any experience at all and you believe in disney love.

this 👍

I can't figure out if he is just really really young and inexperienced or if he is this guy:

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VdTvnS_JWZs&feature=related[/YOUTUBE]

maybe both?
 
this 👍

I can't figure out if he is just really really young and inexperienced or if he is this guy:

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VdTvnS_JWZs&feature=related[/YOUTUBE]

maybe both?
perfection.
 
I like taller women, but refuse a woman taller than me for specific reasons (It is wrong in my culture for the woman to look down on the man).
you've gotta forget about culture and think "nba babies"
 
my point is that 'attractiveness' manifests itself in both appearance and personality. You are pinpointing on the appearance aspect of it, and calling people shallow.

you are missing the point
 
you've gotta forget about culture and think "nba babies"

I went thru that phase where I wanted to marry a tall African American woman back in high school. But realistically, I can't jump, so even if my wife can dunk I'd be holding my kid back. I should think more towards NFL baby. Or MD/PhD baby.
 
Again, ad hominem.

your age is very relevant to the conversation as explained before. Either way youth and naivety are curable conditions 😛
 
I went thru that phase where I wanted to marry a tall African American woman back in high school. But realistically, I can't jump, so even if my wife can dunk I'd be holding my kid back. I should think more towards NFL baby. Or MD/PhD baby.
haha as long as you know whats realistic.
 
how, you are saying a lot of things with great conviction

can you please tell us your situation -are you married? what is your current status?
 
Exactly, you are basing your actions on your personal gain instead of on what is right and honorable.

Is it right to not be happy with your spouse? Is it right to marry someone who you don't find attractive whether it be looks personality or both?

Is it honorable to have a wife who you will inevitably treat worse than a wife who you thought was gorgeous and whose personality you loved?

Stop with the B.S. you are sounding like a troll.
 
pu&&y is a pretty good cure. especially when a couple beotches break your heart.
 
How, i thank you from the bottom of my heart though - you have single handedly revived this thread.

he deserves a round of applause.
 
How, i thank you from the bottom of my heart though - you have single handedly revived this thread.

he deserves a round of applause.

no no no no no no

I did.

I brought up trophy wives and started saying what I want in mine. My credit!


ME!
 
i'm just glad no one has chimed in making this religious. i hope to god i didnt just jinx us.
 
pu&&y is a pretty good cure. especially when a couple beotches break your heart.

Byatches, but yes it is a good cure. And for Christians, which is what I try to be, sometimes bringing that p***y around the ex and deceiving her into thinking you are using it for it's purposes, can be a great cure as well.
 
pu&&y is a pretty good cure. especially when a couple beotches break your heart.

haha agreed and agreed. If this kid is less than 20 I don't want to be the one to educate him on the real world. He'll get things figured out eventually. If he is 20+ then I would like to get through to him and spare him some heartbreak so he can get in the game before he is 30 😛
 
I called it shallow to say that how your wife looks will determine your happiness. That an unattractive woman will make you unhappy or an attractive one will make you happy. I also called it shallow to say I will change my behavior to that person based upon how good they look, i.e. treating the attractive woman in an exceptional way and treating the unattractive woman in a poor fashion.

This is what I referred to as being shallow, and I stand behind the point.

No one has said the part that I just bolded. From what I am aware, a man only marries 1 woman, so I'm not sure where this attractive wife vs. unattractive wife being treated differently discussion comes from.
 
Byatches, but yes it is a good cure. And for Christians, which is what I try to be, sometimes bringing that p***y around the ex and deceiving her into thinking you are using it for it's purposes, can be a great cure as well.
uh oh, someone who was denying the game sounds like he knows how to play it pretty well. haha
 
haha agreed and agreed. If this kid is less than 20 I don't want to be the one to educate him on the real world. He'll get things figured out eventually. If he is 20+ then I would like to get through to him and spare him some heartbreak so he can get in the game before he is 30 😛
if he's not 21 and has not been in at least one serious relationship there is no way he can understand at this point.
 
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