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bro, save the "you, you" crap for when your trying to pick up 18 yo freshman in a feminist studies class. It isn't flying here with guys who have some experience. The reality is that most people will not always be "givers." In order to be happy at least sometimes you have to "get" something back in return.I never said you can't marry a woman you find attractive. This is only natural and expected.
I was referring to the prevalent and mediocre attitude of "me me" that a checklist implies compared to a "you you" which leads to success in life and in relationships also.
Relationships are about give and take, hopefully 50:50.
Don't think that sensitive metro sexual attitude will get you very far with women either.