Jesus man, Is this ethical? I can understand a fruit cake, but I think a laptop crossed the unethical line at about the 25 dollar mark..
I cleared it with my clinic director and Its ok. the patient was actually a referral from another school patient who was very happy with me. Money isn't an issue to him, he is a dental phobe. He has a computer repair and design small business and wanted to show his appreciation. I also got scarfs & hats (my patients know I came from Hawaii and hate the cold), gift certificates and tons of cookies and food, He cant bake but he can build a computer. It is the thought that counts.
As for ethical, if someone spent hours, days knitting a cap for you would you refuse their gift? same thing with the laptop, I didn't want to insult him and I'm glad to have a PC after 4 years of this MAC.
Gifts are gifts... BTW I am reporting it when I file next month, dont ever mess with the IRS.