Horse****.
First off, who the hell are you to say anything definitive about the application process. Are you a Dean, adcom memeber, med student interviewer? Doesn't sound like it. From your sig it sounds like your a book worm shut in who doesnt leave the dorm long enough to mar your perfect transcript, let alone even interact with "imperfect" candidates.
Secondly, are you really so immature to think that admissions is based so heavily on numbers that good stats can over come this perceived imperfection, and also fail to realize that the top 200 or so interviewers are going to have stats that span a large spectrum.
Thirdly, you dont think that adcoms realize that certain conduct violations boil down to nothing more than bad luck. Take an alcohol violation. It'd be safe to say that most normal pre-med students imbibe from time to time. A few will get caught. Many will not.
To the OP, be up front, and explain what you learned.
I have the same problem. Written up freshman year for an alchohol violation. I was hanging out with the other guys in the honors dorm playing video games, driking a few beers. Someone left to go to the bathroom and deadbolted the door open. The RA happened to be making rounds at this time, heard us yelling at the little hockey players on the screen, and walked in to tell us to tone it down a bit. He saw the beer and "had" to write us up (coincidentally, he was the kind of anal shut in pre-med I just accused Brett of being, and we were almost all premed). I had to go to an alcohol workshop, which turned out to be not nearly as fun as it sounded, and talk about the dangers of alcoholism. I actually got a little indignant about their characterizations of alcoholics, seeing as how my dad is one, and didnt learn anything. It's hard to take the "cold hard facts about alcoholism" brochure seriously when you've seen your dad's friend break his back stumbling backwards over the edge of your front porch just weeks after he almost died of a ruptured esophagus (from dry heaving). I'm not sure I'll put the righteous indiganation in the explaination though.