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I am participating in 2019 Match--at least I am trying to. I want to specialize in Peds Psych. I was hoping to go into a triple boards program but that is just not going to happen. Even so, I would like to have some feedback on interviewing with peds programs in general (not just triple boards, but anything peds.)
I am a parent. My children are older now, but I was a parent long before I went to medical school.
I did a search for "parents" here on the peds board and the feeling I get is that parents are often a thorn in your sides. Every fifth comment or so is neutral, and rarely there is even a positive comment about parents. The overwhelming majority of the comments are negative though. I am not criticizing anyone for this. I do understand there is some sample bias going on here. I also had my peds cores plus 3 more electives in peds (plus a peds psych elective). I saw the parents you are referring to. I just feel like maybe they made less of an impression on me because of prior life experience.
This is my question: Is it best to gloss over/minimize my parenting experience if I do get the chance to interview in anything pediatric to avoid the bias against parents in general? Due to my work experience, it would be nearly impossible to completely avoid admitting I am a parent for this match season. (Trust me on this-my work experience includes a job that actually requires being a parent first.)
I truly do not mean for this to be attacking of anyone. I understand your frustrations. If I had gone through medical school before parenthood I would be just as outspoken about it. And in a lot of ways, I am probably even less tolerant of some parents than most of you. It is just different when you have already been there.
Anyway, hide the parent stuff or not?
I am a parent. My children are older now, but I was a parent long before I went to medical school.
I did a search for "parents" here on the peds board and the feeling I get is that parents are often a thorn in your sides. Every fifth comment or so is neutral, and rarely there is even a positive comment about parents. The overwhelming majority of the comments are negative though. I am not criticizing anyone for this. I do understand there is some sample bias going on here. I also had my peds cores plus 3 more electives in peds (plus a peds psych elective). I saw the parents you are referring to. I just feel like maybe they made less of an impression on me because of prior life experience.
This is my question: Is it best to gloss over/minimize my parenting experience if I do get the chance to interview in anything pediatric to avoid the bias against parents in general? Due to my work experience, it would be nearly impossible to completely avoid admitting I am a parent for this match season. (Trust me on this-my work experience includes a job that actually requires being a parent first.)
I truly do not mean for this to be attacking of anyone. I understand your frustrations. If I had gone through medical school before parenthood I would be just as outspoken about it. And in a lot of ways, I am probably even less tolerant of some parents than most of you. It is just different when you have already been there.
Anyway, hide the parent stuff or not?