Hi - I'm new to the forum and I'm asking this question for a friend.
My friend was recently accepted into an MD program (Program A) off of the waitlist and is very excited. He was also waitlisted at another program on practically the same tier as Program A (Program B). While he's extremely grateful and excited for admittance into Program A, Program B is actually his preferred choice. He is willing to wait it out to see what decision Program B gets back to him with, but that would also mean that he can't lock down housing, summer / employment plans, etc. until he hears back. Further, if he DOES get into Program B then it means that he's currently taking up someone else's spot in Program A unnecessarily, which he would like to avoid given how anxious he was while waiting to get into a school.
I personally come from a finance background, so I'm pretty familiar with the concept of shopping around offers i.e. contacting Program B and communicating that, while Program A is great program and the acceptance is exciting, Program B is still the top choice because of resources around certain specialties, the research focus of the school, proximity to certain locations, etc. etc. -- is this type of interaction kosher in the med school world? If not, is there a best way to go about reiterating his desire to go to Program B while remaining respectful to Program A? Thank you!
My friend was recently accepted into an MD program (Program A) off of the waitlist and is very excited. He was also waitlisted at another program on practically the same tier as Program A (Program B). While he's extremely grateful and excited for admittance into Program A, Program B is actually his preferred choice. He is willing to wait it out to see what decision Program B gets back to him with, but that would also mean that he can't lock down housing, summer / employment plans, etc. until he hears back. Further, if he DOES get into Program B then it means that he's currently taking up someone else's spot in Program A unnecessarily, which he would like to avoid given how anxious he was while waiting to get into a school.
I personally come from a finance background, so I'm pretty familiar with the concept of shopping around offers i.e. contacting Program B and communicating that, while Program A is great program and the acceptance is exciting, Program B is still the top choice because of resources around certain specialties, the research focus of the school, proximity to certain locations, etc. etc. -- is this type of interaction kosher in the med school world? If not, is there a best way to go about reiterating his desire to go to Program B while remaining respectful to Program A? Thank you!