cbennett said:
Just how expensive are these 4-6yr long programs including degrees/educational expenses/living...... TOTAL BILL for everything.
Just curious
It costs thousands of hours of sleep
It costs enough "skin off of your back" to skin graft about 15 burn patients
It costs a fair portion of your sanity
It costs every drop of personal pride (at least all the pride you don't already swallow yourself)
It costs you your freedom
It costs you almost all of the control over your life for those years
It costs you time with your family (I've missed: birthdays, anniversaries, almost the birth of my own child, weddings of immediate family members, funerals of grandparents, kids accomplishments like riding bikes- going to first day of school etc)
I am not complaining because I knew about this long before I even applied to OMFS. I only bring it up because I am amazed at how many guys don't know what they are getting into. I had an interviewie tell me one time that he was engaged to be married that next August....I said, I think your going to have to reschedule that. He told me that he had been engaged for two years and that he couldn't reschedule the church. I just chuckled to myself.....No clue what he was getting into. I can't imagine a new intern wanting time off in August when he was in the steepest phase of his learning curve.
"Can you get married on a Saturday and call Sunday your honeymoon?" "You got a deal then"....
I know, I know, I'm a soft hearted guy, I know everyone would like to have me as chief because I am sensitive to needs and desires of people....