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YASS. Do your thang!@dudebroguyman I'll date you if you can hook me up with free anki/sketchy/amboss
This reminds me. I haven't texted back the M3 on bumble about needing an ANKI deck.
YASS. Do your thang!@dudebroguyman I'll date you if you can hook me up with free anki/sketchy/amboss
Having faith in yourself does wonders. I'd recommend itI appreciate your optimism
@dudebroguyman I'll date you if you can hook me up with free anki/sketchy/amboss
Better than craigslist personalsSDN Hookups anyone?
what do the admins think??
Nobody said hookups besides you.SDN Hookups anyone?
what do the admins think??
SDN Hookups anyone?
what do the admins think??
As if i'm not neurotic enough by myself...Can someone get a SDN dating app up? Make it happen!
CringeyGet that white coat dating app profile and you’re good to go. DMs will be flooded
I'm kinda the same with girls lol. I feel like dating a girl to only have fun or to have sex with is weird. If I did that, I would feel like I'm using the girl, which doesn't really sit well with me. I only date girls that I can see myself potentially marrying.I don't understand why men date just to waste years of a woman's life with no intentions to settle down and marry.
But that's just me.
Anyways like @MedLife20 I hope to meet my SPOUSE in med school. He can be a lawyer or firefighter or mechanic or doctor. Idrc so long as he's hard working and treats me like his queen <3
I'm too paranoid to date anybody right now lol.
A lot of my friends in college had dated girls that ended up just using them for connections in research and help with classes. There was even a few cases where some girls would "date" a guy in their class and accuse them of sexual harassment or rape to take out the "competition". It's literally one of the sickest things I have ever witnessed. I understand that the process of becoming a doctor is very competitive, but ruining somebody's life just to get a step up is beyond disgusting.
When I was a TA for organic chemistry, I would commonly witness students do poorly in organic chemistry. I would spend hours of my own time helping students understand and love the subject. But there was one girl who was failing quite badly and couldn't grasp any of the concepts. In desperation, that girl accused me of raping her in her dorm and said that the trauma from the rape didn't allow her to focus in the class. This was a complete lie as the time and location of the rape didn't match where I was at the time, which was with my professors doing research. This ended up being dismissed, but this whole situation seriously ruined many lives. Long story short, I went to court, was found not guilty, the girl got expelled, and many of my professors got fired for not being "professional" (the deans weren't happy that they were defending me).
This whole situation messed up my life a bit too because everybody thought I was a rapist and would avoid me. People spat on me, vandalized my car, and did a lot of other messed up things until I finally graduated. I was even let go from my job as a concert pianist and guitarist because I was a "risk".
I use to be a model, so dating girls wasn't really hard for me (people care about looks way too much ). But ever since that situation, I've been very cautious with talking to girls and have generally avoided doing anything where I will be alone with them. I don't plan on having sex or going on dates with any girl until I know her really well. I'm starting medical school next week and I genuinely hope that everyone I meet is nice. Hopefully, I'll meet my future wife there. I just want a simple, quiet, and happy life with my future wife once we're both doctors.
Basically, be careful who you date and interact with.
I didn't go to a prestigious school, just my local college. I think many students at these prestigious schools have their stuff together so incidents like that are probably rare. But the incidents that happened to me and others at my college occurred during the peak of the #MeToo movement, so a lot of deans were just taking the students word on what happened.Is this real? I went to a pReStIgIoUs school, but no one was cutthroat
also, model, concert pianist, guitarist??
If it is real, I think Donal recently passed something that helps protects your rights in these cases, as opposed to before when i think it was easier to boot you off campus in these cases. Idk not an expert at this topic tho
grass is always greener on the other side@culturekweenXx i am ok though. I decided to just look at it as a positive thing, - i have more time to focus on studying and my career.
One of my friends is an M1, has 2 kids, husband, and sometimes i am so jealous (especially around holidays). But she said that she is jealous of me because i can focus on my career, while she feels guilty every time she studies instead of spending time with her kids and husband. So, it is what it is. You can look at everything as a positive or negative, you know?
gotta be good looking for tinder, cant be looking like a burnt sweet potato like me and get those matches lmaoupdate:
tinder works rly well
I love these vintage emojis
That’s when you throw you wc on for the profile pic.gotta be good looking for tinder, cant be looking like a burnt sweet potato like me and get those matches lmao
guys like me where looks are a 3/10 but personality/humor is top top will really struggle, I feel, because if dating gets dependent on apps then my whole strategy of getting friendly and impressing others with humor and personality is a lost cause
rather die alone than try to win over someone interested in milking me for some money and wooing them with a free coat I got because I was a nerd in undergrad lmaoThat’s when you throw you wc on for the profile pic.
If you're as funny as you say you are, just go do standup. Winning.gotta be good looking for tinder, cant be looking like a burnt sweet potato like me and get those matches lmao
guys like me where looks are a 3/10 but personality/humor is top top will really struggle, I feel, because if dating gets dependent on apps then my whole strategy of getting friendly and impressing others with humor and personality is a lost cause
rather die alone than try to win over someone interested in milking me for some money and wooing them with a free coat I got because I was a nerd in undergrad lmao
cringyThat’s when you throw you wc on for the profile pic.
or nothing at all, amateurs.Yeah. The trick is to wear scrubs instead.
Kinda like zoom interviewing all the timeor nothing at all, amateurs.
You have had someone that has never met you before ...fly to you to go on a date?Dating 101 for Male Medical Students: There are 3 approaches depending on where you're at and what you want.
1.) Limited to no dating experience:
Lower your expectations and try everything (apps/other professional students/etc). I would avoid fellow classmates to avoid ridicule. Focus on experiences that lead to personal growth. Be considerate. Working out can help a little. Go for the lean/athletic look, not the pencil neck/beer belly look. When girls drop you, try to figure out why (spoiler: It will hurt). If you decide against doing this, you're stuck in a holding zone until you find someone A) Who's thoughtful enough to look past your inexperience/quirks B) Who you actually find attractive C) Who's still or newly single. It's a great scenario, just unlikely/random so it's not something that you can work towards and takes time.
2.) Experienced/Long-Term Relationships:
Just ask out a professional student you gel with. If you like medical students start there, but there's usually the whole gamut of health and other professional schools next to medical schools with girls many of whom are just as intelligent/intellectually curious/mutually ambitious, or whatever you find attractive about female medical students.
3. Experienced/Thirsty:
Apps are the best. Be a gentleman, but be direct (initiate) about what you want after you exchange whereabouts. Let her escalate until things get explicit. If she's interested it'll come easy. Some girls are even willing to fly to where you're at to spend a weekend (offer to pay for half, you may like her). There is also the whole "study/chill" thing with classmates a few guys score with every year by about October/November of M1 year, but you have to be careful and let her be the one to escalate to explicit or else your intentions can be misconstrued as malicious.
Don't overcomplicate it. I'm below average on the pecking order (short, mediocre appearance, wear glasses) and I've gone from #1 to #3 and now happily at #2.
You have had someone that has never met you before ...fly to you to go on a date?
This is played out imoGet that white coat dating app profile and you’re good to go. DMs will be flooded
I'm too paranoid to date anybody right now lol.
A lot of my friends in college had dated girls that ended up just using them for connections in research and help with classes. There was even a few cases where some girls would "date" a guy in their class and accuse them of sexual harassment or rape to take out the "competition". It's literally one of the sickest things I have ever witnessed. I understand that the process of becoming a doctor is very competitive, but ruining somebody's life just to get a step up is beyond disgusting.
When I was a TA for organic chemistry, I would commonly witness students do poorly in organic chemistry. I would spend hours of my own time helping students understand and love the subject. But there was one girl who was failing quite badly and couldn't grasp any of the concepts. In desperation, that girl accused me of raping her in her dorm and said that the trauma from the rape didn't allow her to focus in the class. This was a complete lie as the time and location of the rape didn't match where I was at the time, which was with my professors doing research. This ended up being dismissed, but this whole situation seriously ruined many lives. Long story short, I went to court, was found not guilty, the girl got expelled, and many of my professors got fired for not being "professional" (the deans weren't happy that they were defending me).
This whole situation messed up my life a bit too because everybody thought I was a rapist and would avoid me. People spat on me, vandalized my car, and did a lot of other messed up things until I finally graduated. I was even let go from my job as a concert pianist and guitarist because I was a "risk".
I use to be a model, so dating girls wasn't really hard for me (people care about looks way too much ). But ever since that situation, I've been very cautious with talking to girls and have generally avoided doing anything where I will be alone with them. I don't plan on having sex or going on dates with any girl until I know her really well. I'm starting medical school next week and I genuinely hope that everyone I meet is nice. Hopefully, I'll meet my future wife there. I just want a simple, quiet, and happy life with my future wife once we're both doctors.
Basically, be careful who you date and interact with.
I know right, that's so 2013. What you want to do now is link your TikTok to your dating app profile and have your featured clip be you doing the shoe flip thing transitioning you from jeans/hoodie to your white coat/slacks.This is played out imo
Only if they're Figs. Hospital scrubs won't cut it.Yeah. The trick is to wear scrubs instead.
Put a picture of you curing Covid, the shorties will love itHow can I spit better game on tinder?
I would do it internationally all day every day!!You have had someone that has never met you before ...fly to you to go on a date?
Be > 6’0How can I spit better game on tinder?
Ok. I’m 6’1.Be > 6’0
Face > everything.Be > 6’0
That's basically 1a. The issue is that I presume some guys want immediate action while they're pursuing that PGY-8 path to NSG.Too much work. I'll just let my million dollar salary as a future neurosurgery attending do all the talking
Sure but even if I was a 25 year old male in M3 I wouldn't want to dedicate my life to memorizing neuroanatomy, maximizing my Step scores, networking heavily to make myself a competitive candidate in order to spend the next 8 years doing 100 hr. weeks being first assist, learning management of neurosurgical issues, etc. just so that when I turn 35 I can cash that out to sleep with a few hot women. It's much easier to just play the dating game and jump through a few small hoops that simultaneously help develop other life skills, as detailed above.Yeah. Also, being single at 35 isn't as much of a death sentence as it is for women.
every guy that is struggling to get girls in med school, please listen to this personSure but even if I was a 25 year old male in M3 I wouldn't want to dedicate my life to memorizing neuroanatomy, maximizing my Step scores, networking heavily to make myself a competitive candidate in order to spend the next 8 years doing 100 hr. weeks being first assist, learning management of neurosurgical issues, etc. just so that when I turn 35 I can cash that out to sleep with a few hot women. It's much easier to just play the dating game and jump through a few small hoops that simultaneously help develop other life skills, as detailed above.
Yeah. Also, being single at 35 isn't as much of a death sentence as it is for women.
You can be a "sugar daddy" without being a NSG. Unless cashing out means something different.Sure but even if I was a 25 year old male in M3 I wouldn't want to dedicate my life to memorizing neuroanatomy, maximizing my Step scores, networking heavily to make myself a competitive candidate in order to spend the next 8 years doing 100 hr. weeks being first assist, learning management of neurosurgical issues, etc. just so that when I turn 35 I can cash that out to sleep with a few hot women. It's much easier to just play the dating game and jump through a few small hoops that simultaneously help develop other life skills, as detailed above.
Too much work. I'll just let my million dollar salary as a future neurosurgery attending do all the talking.
Yeah. Also, being single at 35 isn't as much of a death sentence as it is for women.
Well this went from 0 to 100 real quick.I go to a top 5 medical school. So no, I don't set all my bars low. Based on your post history, you got a D- in ochem, so I guess you're the one who is setting bars low. Let me guess, you're at a low tier school now?
And sure, you can see my squat. Technically speaking, setting bars low on a squat is good. That means I'm not quarter squatting 4 plates like you probably are.
Hey! I was just trying to post some standard dating stuff. It was that guy who's hating on high bar squats who even brought neurosurgery into this. I guess its on point with his neurosurgery aspirations as high bar's notorious for cervical radiculopathy pain if you're doing stupid stuff.You can be a "sugar daddy" without being a NSG. Unless cashing out means something different.
Unless you're directly paying, your salary won't be much of a factor in 2020. Some women do care about the money, but there's a very direct exchange involved. Most care about the looks/personality and being an average office worker is very sufficient for most.
And you think a 35 year old guy has more dating options than a 35 year old woman? lool!
You'd be surprised! Premeds and MS1s will read this and decide to do NSG cause they think that is what will solve their dating problems.Hey! I was just trying to post some standard dating stuff. It was that guy who's hating on high bar squats who even brought neurosurgery into this. I guess its on point with his neurosurgery aspirations as high bar's notorious for cervical radiculopathy pain if you're doing stupid stuff.