Dating in pharmacy school

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UofK said:
From my experience, which is zilch, girls fall for douches, dates the douche, then complain when said douche cheats on them, repeat cycle till early to mid 30's.
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I used to wonder for the longest type why this happens. Then it suddenly dawned on me. Ladies who date douches are either dumb or have low-self esteem. They don't think they deserve better so they stoop low. They aren't the type a decent guy would want to date anyways. So consider it a blessing in disguise.
 
I wonder if anyone can bring in a regular guy who's so not much into science and pharmacy give his opinion on picking up chicks.

we should ask whether chicks really do like bad boys.

Hey males, do you want to date a (censored) chick, or a hot girl?
 
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UofK said:
I'm the nice guy.
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You NEVER want to be the nice guy. Nice guy suck. I want to explain the whole thing but I am too lazy to type... couple links will suffice. You will find tons of these on the internet basically explaining the same thing over and over...

"And no, women don’t want “jerks” over nice guys – what women want is a man who has a backbone, who is comfortable in his own skin. Women want a man who is a leader and not a push-over. Women want to be loved, not worshipped."

http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/wdc/205576820.html
http://theghostnation.com/category/31-reasons-why-being-a-nice-guy-sucks/
http://www.aboutyourbreakup.com/yuk.html
 
Every time I walk by a Hot Topic store and look in, I get scared. But the hot/cute young girls in my area are into tattoo sleeves, piercings, and crazy chit. They think "it's hot" in their own words. I hit on this cute innocent looking chic at a sandwich shop several times, eventually got her number, and found out later she chased after this type of dude and asked him out! Now I'm wondering if I should I get into this chit for the girls. I blame David Beckham.
 
Ackj said:
Good luck finding a first timer in their mid-20s. Or even mid-teens.
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That's not the point. The point is that you shouldn't be dating skanks that have been around just for the purpose of "working on your game". Duh
 
xXRAYNEXx said:
Every time I walk by a Hot Topic store and look in, I get scared. But the hot/cute young girls in my area are into tattoo sleeves, piercings, and crazy chit. They think "it's hot" in their own words. I hit on this cute innocent looking chic at a sandwich shop several times, eventually got her number, and found out later she chased after this type of dude and asked him out! Now I'm wondering if I should I get into this chit for the girls. I blame David Beckham.
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Don't pretend to be into something just for the girls. Eventually you'll get sick of lying to yourself. Besides, that "crazy/hot" graph totally tips towards the "crazy" side when you get into tattoos and piercings.

Don't be scared of Hot Topic though. It's normal enough to be put in malls, despite the fact that they play metal music. Most "metal" people aren't really frightening, despite looking like vikings. They're usually friendly, but a little bit weird. Kind of like nerds, really.
 
Ackj said:
Don't pretend to be into something just for the girls. Eventually you'll get sick of lying to yourself. Besides, that "crazy/hot" graph totally tips towards the "crazy" side when you get into tattoos and piercings.

Don't be scared of Hot Topic though. It's normal enough to be put in malls, despite the fact that they play metal music. Most "metal" people aren't really frightening, despite looking like vikings. They're usually friendly, but a little bit weird. Kind of like nerds, really.
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👍 +1 Just being yourself is always best. The crazy/hot theory could have some truth to it, I don't mind a little crazy here or there myself 😉

I can relate to hot topic intimidation. The lights are always dim and everything they sell is dark if not black. Feels like I'm haunted housing.
 
PharmDstudent said:
That's not the point. The point is that you shouldn't be dating skanks that have been around just for the purpose of "working on your game". Duh
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Most guys my age just want to get laid and my advice is catered towards those people. That's the real point. Don't want to work your game up? Well either find a nice girl who will have sex infrequently or enjoy blue balls.
 
Ackj said:
I don't like to speak in absolutes. #1, never go? Maybe never go with the intent of bringing one home, but to simply say never go? That doesn't make sense. #2 Never spend more than $30? If you go to Applebee's you're hitting that limit, unless you split the tab. Maybe in the '90s that was a good rule of thumb, but nowadays it's $10 for one movie ticket and another $10 just for popcorn. Redbox and microwave popcorn fits the budget, but I don't think that counts as a date. #3 I'll agree with. Practice makes perfect. Just make sure she isn't a clingy 30 year old secretary. Sometimes when the biological clock starts ticking they don't let go very easily.
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Well these aren't "absolutes", these are rules. Let me respond to your criticism now that I finally have a keyboard to use.

#1, never go? Maybe never go with the intent of bringing one home, but to simply say never go? That doesn't make sense.
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I would never date a stripper anyway so that takes care of that but what do you mean that doesn't make sense? Are you kidding me? I can't speak for everyone else but I would never go to a restaurant and throw dollar bills at a rack of ribs that you aren't allowed to eat or touch (well, I guess you can touch but not without the pit boss socking you in the face). It's just a waste of money for nothing. Why not spend that on yourself or towards your $30 dollar limit? Which leads me to...

#2 Never spend more than $30? If you go to Applebee's you're hitting that limit, unless you split the tab. Maybe in the '90s that was a good rule of thumb, but nowadays it's $10 for one movie ticket and another $10 just for popcorn. Redbox and microwave popcorn fits the budget, but I don't think that counts as a date.
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Spending money on a girl isn't going to increase OR decrease your chances of getting laid afterwards. She's already made up her mind and you spending your money on a 20 oz prime rib vs a chicken salad isn't going to do anything for your cause to get laid. Here's what you do: you call her up and ask her what time she's having dinner and then say you'll meet her at X for drinks. Problem solved.

Practice makes perfect. Just make sure she isn't a clingy 30 year old secretary.
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Who cares if she's clingy? Caller ID works and just make it a point to never take her to your place. Another problem solved.
 
Ackj said:
Don't pretend to be into something just for the girls. Eventually you'll get sick of lying to yourself. Besides, that "crazy/hot" graph totally tips towards the "crazy" side when you get into tattoos and piercings.

Don't be scared of Hot Topic though. It's normal enough to be put in malls, despite the fact that they play metal music. Most "metal" people aren't really frightening, despite looking like vikings. They're usually friendly, but a little bit weird. Kind of like nerds, really.
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...but dey so sizzling hot, I don't mind getting burned by em.




124bbb said:
👍 +1 Just being yourself is always best. The crazy/hot theory could have some truth to it, I don't mind a little crazy here or there myself 😉

I can relate to hot topic intimidation. The lights are always dim and everything they sell is dark if not black. Feels like I'm haunted housing.
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how did u get my gf pic?




All4MyDaughter said:
Most of the advice in this thread could be moved to a new thread titled: Dating Advice for Perpetual Virgins by Perpetual Virgins. :meanie:
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Who's a virgin in here please raise ur hands? ...see? Nobody. I don't know what ur talkin about.




pfaction said:
How the **** is this still a topic?

http://forums.studentdoctor.net/showpost.php?p=12438612&postcount=5

I thought this joke topic was over at this post. I guess he was serious? Holy **** you're psychotic.
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Hey, let the brother aim high. Although I do admit he's aiming too high. He's not only aiming for the stars, but also reach the end of the universe.

I see this thread has evolved to general dating advice for drug dealers.

Sent from my PC36100
 
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ImmunoPharmD said:
I asked a pharmacy school girl out two days ago, but she said she had to go back to China to visit her uncle. Lamest excuse ever.
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She was leaving immediately? If not until the next day or two, you could have at least gotten a date that night with any perseverance.
 
So...to what i'm reading if you are normal and a nice guy you can land the girl in pharm school? oh is it a myth or fact that girls find guys in pharmacy school more appealing?
 
pharmlove123 said:
So...to what i'm reading if you are normal and a nice guy you can land the girl in pharm school? oh is it a myth or fact that girls find guys in pharmacy school more appealing?
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Why don't you go and hit on a girl who's not in pharmacy school or professional school. Chances are they'll go ohhhhhhhh me want you! I had that happened before, but those girls aren't classy.
 
pharmlove123 said:
So...to what i'm reading if you are normal and a nice guy you can land the girl in pharm school? oh is it a myth or fact that girls find guys in pharmacy school more appealing?
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If you never had any luck dating girls in your undergrad its not going to change in pharmacy school. The pharmacy girls have P2 and P3s to pick from so its not like you're a hot item. If your school has a medical school the guys from there will be prowling your class as well.
 
30Percent said:
If you never had any luck dating girls in your undergrad its not going to change in pharmacy school. The pharmacy girls have P2 and P3s to pick from so its not like you're a hot item. If your school has a medical school the guys from there will be prowling your class as well.
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I'm pretty sure it's the pharmacy ladies doing the prowling on the medical and dental students, from what I've seen...
 
UofK said:
I'm the nice guy.

Guess that means I'm effed.
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Only if you let them mistake your niceness for weakness, and it's really harder to be good than bad for a lot of people, sometimes (not that I'm speaking from personal experience or anything), so you're probably O.K.
 
Ackj said:
Are you an archeologist?

Because I have a bone for you to examine.
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No.

Try Craigslist, I think you might find the type of specialist you're looking for there. Good luck with that bone examination, just make sure that they know what they're doing because you definitely want a bonafide expert to help you out with this.
 
FIVE02 said:
No.

Try Craigslist, I think you might find the type of specialist you're looking for there. Good luck with that bone examination, just make sure that they know what they're doing because you definitely want a bonafide expert to help you out with this.
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Yeah, no amateurs. I need someone who is very experienced with handling bones.
 
ImmunoPharmD said:
Why don't you go and hit on a girl who's not in pharmacy school or professional school. Chances are they'll go ohhhhhhhh me want you! I had that happened before, but those girls aren't classy.
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Who cares about being classy? Dating equals youknowwhat.
 
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I'm actually a very lonely person. Every time I think I like someone I end up trying to look for their flaws, and I end up being alone. In fact, I don't think I'm capable of marrying someone because of this.
 
Momus said:
"And no, women don’t want “jerks” over nice guys – what women want is a man who has a backbone, who is comfortable in his own skin. Women want a man who is a leader and not a push-over. Women want to be loved, not worshipped." http://www.aboutyourbreakup.com/yuk.html
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If a woman wanted to be loved, she would never leave her parents house. You can commiserate with Stephen Hawking and Sigmund Freud who despite their intelligence, don't know what women want.
 
Old Timer said:
If a woman wanted to be loved, she would never leave her parents house. You can commiserate with Stephen Hawking and Sigmund Freud who despite their intelligence, don't know what women want.
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It doesn't take intelligence to know what women want. It takes common sense. Except people lose all their common sense when they're infatuated.
 
Its Z said:
It doesn't take intelligence to know what women want. It takes common sense. Except people lose all their common sense when they're infatuated.
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These people are not infatuated. They have two heads and only enough blood to run one at a time and they prefer the smaller one....
 
Its Z said:
It doesn't take intelligence to know what women want. It takes common sense. Except people lose all their common sense when they're infatuated.
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Never give women what they want. They'll never respect you for it. One of the best pieces of advice I've received for dating is this: when you're in a situation or dilemma, think about what your mom would want you to do and do the complete opposite.
 
BenJammin said:
Never give women what they want. They'll never respect you for it. One of the best pieces of advice I've received for dating is this: when you're in a situation or dilemma, think about what your mom would want you to do and do the complete opposite.
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Man, following that advice could get outta hand real quick...:meanie:
 
This thread is killing me, read a few pages and decided I should stop. To the OP, and some responders. The dream might be out there, just be willing to give a little. Confidence is key. Why do you think *******s do so well? It's because they exude confidence, and even though they might not have everything else a girl wants, confidence can blind them anyways. It sounds like you could do alright, and don't let these people tell you you can't find what you want because you play videogames or any of that crap. I used to be a pro gamer, I'm a very athletic and attractive 26 year old man, you CAN have it all. It's just about dedication (and of course some genetics). If you were to ask me what the one thing you really need to survive in the dating world is, it would be confidence.

PS - current P1 and very disappointed in the selection in my class = [
 
sisson329 said:
This thread is killing me, read a few pages and decided I should stop. To the OP, and some responders. The dream might be out there, just be willing to give a little. Confidence is key. Why do you think *******s do so well? It's because they exude confidence, and even though they might not have everything else a girl wants, confidence can blind them anyways. It sounds like you could do alright, and don't let these people tell you you can't find what you want because you play videogames or any of that crap. I used to be a pro gamer, I'm a very athletic and attractive 26 year old man, you CAN have it all. It's just about dedication (and of course some genetics). If you were to ask me what the one thing you really need to survive in the dating world is, it would be confidence.

PS - current P1 and very disappointed in the selection in my class = [
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26 y/o P1 and you think you got it all? I would say a false sense of self confidence is more like it.:meanie:
 
Its Z said:
26 y/o P1 and you think you got it all? I would say a false sense of self confidence is more like it.:meanie:
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In all fairness he may be from D'Youville, those P1's are known to have it all, like the world at their fingers, you know? Oh, and that is documented. :meanie:
 
Its Z said:
Nothing unless you start spouting off you have it all.
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I'm a 29 year old unicorn and I've got a million dollar contract in Alaska when I graduate. They are paying for my relocation too. Complete with eskimo harem and all the sea lions I can skin. Oh...and I get a weekly delivery of animal fries dropped off by helicopter right in front of my igloo. I have a personal Scandinavian servant girl to take care of my igloo as well. :meanie:
 
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rxlea said:
I'm a 29 year old unicorn and I've got a million dollar contract in Alaska when I graduate. They are paying for my relocation too. Complete with eskimo harem and all the sea lions I can skin. Oh...and I get a weekly delivery of animal fries dropped off by helicopter right in front of my igloo. I have a personal Scandinavian servant girl to take care of my igloo as well. :meanie:
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Me too! Well... not exactly, my servant girl is only 1/2 Scandinavian (...they lied to me!). As disappointing as that is, I just cope with the piles of money and the guns and the hookers and the Iditarod and the bubble-baths full of Cristal and the Ice Road Truck sittin' outside the 'Gloo on dubs, nothin less than 40" (...that's right I said 40's).
 
I asked you people if its possible to date a pharmacy colleague who has a personality that I like, and you people turned it into a dating advice thread for troll posts. Last but not least, some of you accused me of being a troll while I was being honest about who I like. It doesn't take a genius to spot a dog t-u-r-d on a birthday cake.
Good job.
 
ImmunoPharmD said:
I asked you people if its possible to date a pharmacy colleague who has a personality that I like, and you people turned it into a dating advice thread for troll posts. Last but not least, some of you accused me of being a troll while I was being honest about who I like. It doesn't take a genius to spot a dog t-u-r-d on a birthday cake.
Good job.
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Never dip your pen in the company ink. You are asking for trouble and you are risking your job if things go south with this relationship.
 
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