Hopefully my last comment on this topic but my advice again is to analyze your situation and make the best decision on what you know and feel is the right thing to do.
I described above where a resident had the GME/ACGME involved and it worked. I will not go into details about that situation but just know that there could be another option versus tolerating an injustice. I know many don't want to hear this but discrimination still exists in America.
Does this relate to the OP situation, althogh highly unlikely but something to consider.
The problem is this, and I do believe some are reticent to see it. Bullying of all forms exists. Bullying is considered "OK," particularly if there will unlikely be any kind of EEOC claim or fight attached to it.
Not liking someone's personality or resenting them for intelligence, level of compassion/empathy, personal appearance, any number of things should NOT be enough to fire someone; but the truth is, it definitely happens. It is allowed every, single day, and it has been for centuries. The At-Will-Employment doctrine is an old doctrine, and the weight of any benefit of it goes mostly to the employer. And even though residents have contracts, sadly they only have relatively short-term contracts.
What causes me to feel sadly is that people don't want to address the reality that subjectivity, even with re: to social behaviors and such, can indeed be put in more objective terms and require specifics written under certain guidelines. Capricious, even subtle bullying should not be allowed, but it it. And mostly it is accepted and people look the other way or play into it.
You can always make a false claim about someone and get others on board with the most influentials to oust them. A person can have 90% or better of others with whom they work that know full well that person does indeed work and play well with others. All you need are influentials--people with power, influence, clout--the people no one wants to go against b/c of their influence and power, and so out of fear or affiliation, the others go along with it or stand back and do nothing, and then the person is gone. Again, special "gloves" are used when there is some fear that a target could make an EEOC violation claim. If the person would have a tough time making such a claim, it's not at all difficult to do capricious weed-outs.
In fact, the employer basically holds pretty much all the cards. And that may well be fine to a certain degree; EXCEPT when their are grossly subjective "measures" that are used and abused capriciously to oust good practitioners.
IMHO, the more specialized the unit/area/department, the more likely you will see this sort of thing.
Should the person want to continue in such a toxic environment? Well no, surely they probably would jump to get out if they could. And if it is toxic enough, the should. I get that. Still, he or she needs to continue her/his training, and there is certainly no guarantee these political games are not going to go on elsewhere, or even that a former place will not influence a latter place.
Also, people do actually give subpar references unfairly all the time. Certainly this is not at all true of everyone for God's sake. But it happens enough to be concerning. And for malicious people, it is about being sly. All this business about it being illegal is nice and well and good, but the truth is this: what one person says in a telephone call (mostly likely occurrence) or even in a face-to-face (say at a conference or whatever) meeting with another, will usually never be known to the person seeking the reference.
The only fair and rational way to deal with this is to develop and apply the most objective measuring systems, which allow for specific and clear elaboration.
If not, then the only other solution is to just keep going with capricious systems of evaluation and have residents or whatever group of workers to which we are referring continue to play the abusive kiss-a$$ games and use some form of ingratiating theory in order to survive.
YES! No doubt! People do need to work and play well with others, but they also need to be themselves and should not have to attempt to completely morph into something that they are not--kiss-azzers or purveyors of some ingratiating theory or tolerant of abuse and bullying in order to survive. When this is not done by recruits--person is polite but does not engage in ingratiating themselves to the powerful others, or the person is polite but sets reasonable boundaries on abuse/bullying, they can easily be bullied even more--the game just gets more subversive. So not only is the abuse immoral, but the point of the program--the focus of learning and growing--is shifted to game-playing and abuse and moved off of the essential competencies at hand.
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