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Hi everyone,
I’m a new dental grad and have been working as an associate for a private practice for the last 6.5 months. I know I still have a long way to go.
Obviously you can’t please everyone that walks through the door no matter what you try to do, but I’m still having a hard time coping/dealing with unhappy patients.
My boss received a complaint regarding my attitude from a patient I saw 4 months ago for a cleaning. She was an elderly patient, been through a lot physically and was unable to brush her teeth as often as she’d like.
She had generalized heavy plaque, and I let her know, especially when she had veneers that would be expensive to replace if she got recurrent decay.
Tried updating probing chart, too painful. Used topical, not good enough. Said she always gets numbed up (with injections) for all her cleanings. (I checked previous chart notes, never had a note about getting local for cleanings).
She eventually opted to come back another time to get her SRP’s done.
From my recollection, I was very cordial with her throughout the whole appointment, tried accommodating her discomfort the whole time.
Fast forward to two weeks ago, our front desk got her complaint after trying to schedule her to come back.
She responded and said that I had a very poor attitude, all I talked about was her plaque and how she was doing an awful job cleaning her teeth. Said she never wanted to come back to the office if she was going to be treated that way.
I found out about the complaint today. I called her to try and apologize. She didn’t accept my apology, didn’t want to talk to me, and yelled at me and repeated what was said to the front desk. “I will never walk into that office to see YOU for an appointment.” While in the middle of apologizing for the second time on the phone and trying to sympathize, she hung up on me.
She has been a patient of my boss’ for 20 years, so from now on my boss will be seeing her for all appointments.
My boss tried cheering me up and talking to me, but it still hurts knowing I tried my best and my version of what happened doesn’t coincide with how the patient felt.
I guess I’m here to vent, get any advice about what I could have done better or how I should have better handled this, and hear similar stories from anyone else to try and make myself feel better because misery loves company. I don’t have thick enough skin for dentistry just yet (or customer service in general, for that matter)...
I’m a new dental grad and have been working as an associate for a private practice for the last 6.5 months. I know I still have a long way to go.
Obviously you can’t please everyone that walks through the door no matter what you try to do, but I’m still having a hard time coping/dealing with unhappy patients.
My boss received a complaint regarding my attitude from a patient I saw 4 months ago for a cleaning. She was an elderly patient, been through a lot physically and was unable to brush her teeth as often as she’d like.
She had generalized heavy plaque, and I let her know, especially when she had veneers that would be expensive to replace if she got recurrent decay.
Tried updating probing chart, too painful. Used topical, not good enough. Said she always gets numbed up (with injections) for all her cleanings. (I checked previous chart notes, never had a note about getting local for cleanings).
She eventually opted to come back another time to get her SRP’s done.
From my recollection, I was very cordial with her throughout the whole appointment, tried accommodating her discomfort the whole time.
Fast forward to two weeks ago, our front desk got her complaint after trying to schedule her to come back.
She responded and said that I had a very poor attitude, all I talked about was her plaque and how she was doing an awful job cleaning her teeth. Said she never wanted to come back to the office if she was going to be treated that way.
I found out about the complaint today. I called her to try and apologize. She didn’t accept my apology, didn’t want to talk to me, and yelled at me and repeated what was said to the front desk. “I will never walk into that office to see YOU for an appointment.” While in the middle of apologizing for the second time on the phone and trying to sympathize, she hung up on me.
She has been a patient of my boss’ for 20 years, so from now on my boss will be seeing her for all appointments.
My boss tried cheering me up and talking to me, but it still hurts knowing I tried my best and my version of what happened doesn’t coincide with how the patient felt.
I guess I’m here to vent, get any advice about what I could have done better or how I should have better handled this, and hear similar stories from anyone else to try and make myself feel better because misery loves company. I don’t have thick enough skin for dentistry just yet (or customer service in general, for that matter)...