I'm a trauma surgeon and I've finished my fellowship recently. I work at a busy emergency hospital in a major metro, so I regularly see gunshot wounds, car crashes etc. Now for my patients and their families, it's probably the worst thing to ever happen to them and emotions are always running high, which I can perfectly understand.
However, in the past few days, I've had some experiences which I am not sure how to handle. In one case, I finished a 6-hour long surgery at night and was taking a small 15 min break eating some food in the cafeteria and talking to my colleagues. Then the mother of the patient came and basically screamed: "Why aren't you saving my son, how can you just sit here etc etc".
Now I understand that it's probably the worst thing to ever happen to her, but at the same time, I can't be expected to be running round in a full frenzy every single day. For me, its just another day at work. This has happened a few times now in just the past week, although not as dramatic as the one I described.
I explain that I'm trying my best etc. and other doctors are also caring for the patients but is there any way to stop this happening in the first place and how do the rest of you deal with this?
However, in the past few days, I've had some experiences which I am not sure how to handle. In one case, I finished a 6-hour long surgery at night and was taking a small 15 min break eating some food in the cafeteria and talking to my colleagues. Then the mother of the patient came and basically screamed: "Why aren't you saving my son, how can you just sit here etc etc".
Now I understand that it's probably the worst thing to ever happen to her, but at the same time, I can't be expected to be running round in a full frenzy every single day. For me, its just another day at work. This has happened a few times now in just the past week, although not as dramatic as the one I described.
I explain that I'm trying my best etc. and other doctors are also caring for the patients but is there any way to stop this happening in the first place and how do the rest of you deal with this?