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OK so I'm gonna post this here too...moderators don't yell at me
Disclaimer: I'm sorry I'm gonna vent a lil now so you can go away if you don't like these kinds of posts, but if you're bored read on:
I just don't know if this is feasible....I took half my pre-reqs in college and recently started the postbacc in the Fall to complete them, but withdrew from Physics, Orgo I, and Stats mid semester because I was working full-time, had no time to study, didn't wanna screw my GPA over, and was sick of listening to pre-med committee advisors tell me "you need a 3.8 or you won't get in to med school." My GPA is already about 3.2.
So that was a mistake, I realize that now. I am persistent though and am taking these classes again this Spring with less work hours. After working in clinical settings I realized, I REALLY do want this. I can't picture doing anything else.
However, I am in debt already from college, and definitely not making enough to make ends meet and live on my own with these classes now. I have some family support (parents) but I'm 22 and feel like a total moocher. I drive 40 minutes to get to work and school and 40 minutes back every day (w/o traffic). I'm a female so I worry about having kids and a family on time, yadda yadda yadda. It's totally difficult maintaining a relationship when you're so busy all the time and I feel I can't balance a realtionship with trying to get to med school and a pretty much full-time job and commuting to work/school/bf's place. But at the same time I don't want to be one of those lonely cat women! By the time I'm in med school, at 24 or 25 I feel like everyone will be married or something.
I'm so confused. I don't mind the debt, but I do mind not having people around me....this post-bacc thing is such a lonely existence when everyone else goes out and you're always busy.... I don't know, I'm just depressed. Sorry, just wondering if anyone else shares these feelings....DOes it take time to get used to the lifestyle? I applaud the mothers, fathers, spouses, and full-timers - you guys are superhuman or something....no, actually I guess you're just amazing, future doctors!
Disclaimer: I'm sorry I'm gonna vent a lil now so you can go away if you don't like these kinds of posts, but if you're bored read on:
I just don't know if this is feasible....I took half my pre-reqs in college and recently started the postbacc in the Fall to complete them, but withdrew from Physics, Orgo I, and Stats mid semester because I was working full-time, had no time to study, didn't wanna screw my GPA over, and was sick of listening to pre-med committee advisors tell me "you need a 3.8 or you won't get in to med school." My GPA is already about 3.2.
So that was a mistake, I realize that now. I am persistent though and am taking these classes again this Spring with less work hours. After working in clinical settings I realized, I REALLY do want this. I can't picture doing anything else.
However, I am in debt already from college, and definitely not making enough to make ends meet and live on my own with these classes now. I have some family support (parents) but I'm 22 and feel like a total moocher. I drive 40 minutes to get to work and school and 40 minutes back every day (w/o traffic). I'm a female so I worry about having kids and a family on time, yadda yadda yadda. It's totally difficult maintaining a relationship when you're so busy all the time and I feel I can't balance a realtionship with trying to get to med school and a pretty much full-time job and commuting to work/school/bf's place. But at the same time I don't want to be one of those lonely cat women! By the time I'm in med school, at 24 or 25 I feel like everyone will be married or something.
I'm so confused. I don't mind the debt, but I do mind not having people around me....this post-bacc thing is such a lonely existence when everyone else goes out and you're always busy.... I don't know, I'm just depressed. Sorry, just wondering if anyone else shares these feelings....DOes it take time to get used to the lifestyle? I applaud the mothers, fathers, spouses, and full-timers - you guys are superhuman or something....no, actually I guess you're just amazing, future doctors!