Trigger warning: this post may contain strong language, AKA as THE TRUTH. Please do not read it outside of your safe space. Please make sure to put on your psychological safety belt, maybe gather together with other sensitive souls, to comfort each other and protect your feelings from getting hurt.
First of all, I am half sorry half not for the OP. I have walked in those shoes, maybe a different model, until the grapevine was so kind to tell me what one of the attendings had said about me. Nothing to be proud of. That was a wake up call.
While a resident, I used to hate working with a couple of attendings, including that one, because they were not nice to me. They were in your face, and told you (occasionally) exactly what they thought about you. Many years later, I mostly remember just what those people taught me.
Those who read this forum frequently know that I believe in tough love, especially in education. It's been proven again and again that memories are best formed when coupled with strong emotions. That's why the sergeant shouts at the fresh recruits in the military. I still have to see a good professional sports coach who doesn't occasionally raise his/her voice and make players feel bad. If one is comfortable, one is not learning.
The reason I was half not sorry for the OP was that one should know by the middle of the CA-2 (or CA-3?) year what one sucks at. It shouldn't be rocket science by now. If one doesn't have that kind of insight, it ain't good and won't end well. It's one thing not to be good at something; it's a different story not even knowing what one doesn't know. That's a royal lack of insight. And that was the part that pissed me off enough to kind of go off on a rant at some point.
By the way, that post was written while tired, hence my filters were not working well anymore (then, on top of that, I wasted 20+ minutes to give him advice, like any respectable sociopath). Still, some reactions to that post made me think QED. I couldn't have brought on the postmodernist whining better even if I had wanted to. Some people just couldn't help themselves and had to prove my point that one cannot tell the truth to some Y-ers and Z-ers without packaging it in a lot of lies, with a bow. It's not worth the effort, and it's not worth the consequences, and here's the proof. Also, it was symptomatic that the people who were so fast at being speech police did not contribute sh-t to the thread. If you disagree with what I said, at least do a better job than me, so I can admire the genius of your thoughts, the beauty of your minds. Don't just criticize me with the IQ of a mob, i.e. the reptilian brain, the limbic system. There is no cortex involved there.
As things stay, I am afraid for the future of this country and of the world. My only hope is that these generations will mature, as we all have. We have all been there. In the meanwhile, dear snowflakes, if you can't forgive my bluntness, please just Ignore me. It takes just a click, the same one I will use for ya.
Love, "Boomer". OK?
P.S. I've just re-read my previous post. THAT was sociopathic? Seriously? Holy cow, what babies! That post is almost civilized (as in yes, I would say all that to your faces, if I actually cared about your welfare). Please do yourselves a favor and grow up. You can start by reading "The Coddling Of The American Mind".