Do you ever get angry/jealous/depressed when you see others enjoying life?

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Well your friends seem to be the exception, not the rule. Of all my friends, the highest paid is making $63k, the lowest $30k. And that's not including the ~40% that are either unemployed or working as a waiter because they can't find work in their field. its not the panacea you make it out to be.

As everyone keeps saying...it's all relative. You lice in the richest country in the world training for a career that will put you in the top 1% of earners in the US.
What do you want people to say? Sucks to be you? my friends make money and I don't? Sucks, but you did choose this, and you could have it much, much worse.

It doesn't matter if my friends are the exception are not, they are who I compare my lives with and see how the different paths are working out/have worked out since college. My highest paid friend started off at 175K out of law school a few years ago and I have other friends who make 6 figures. No one is unemployed.

I don't go around complaining about med school to everyone and I don't have a woe is me attitude. In an earlier post I stated I enjoyed med school and I meant it. That doesn't mean there aren't aspects of it I don't like and that there aren't times when I am envious of aspects of my friend's lives.

Yes med school will eventually lead to a stable career with good pay, but that doesn't mean there aren't times where it sucks and where the lives of my friends look great
 
Well your friends seem to be the exception, not the rule. Of all my friends, the highest paid is making $63k, the lowest $30k. And that's not including the ~40% that are either unemployed or working as a waiter because they can't find work in their field. its not the panacea you make it out to be.

As everyone keeps saying...it's all relative. You lice in the richest country in the world training for a career that will put you in the top 1% of earners in the US.
What do you want people to say? Sucks to be you? my friends make money and I don't? Sucks, but you did choose this, and you could have it much, much worse.

This is true for many of my friends as well. I can only say about 2 of my friends are making anywhere close to six figs but they are engineers who have been working 60-70 hours a week and also have Masters degrees with 4 years of experience.

Also keep in mind that there are MANY people on this forum who have good numbers but don't get into medical school. And spend countless hours volunteering, paying tons of money to do post bacs and reapplication/interview fees . Not to mention the long hours of MCAT studying which some have to put off social life for a while. And the constant worrying about getting in which is why many are here in the first place.

Which is why some on SDN aren't that sympathetic about a person studying a lot.

It doesn't matter if my friends are the exception are not, they are who I compare my lives with and see how the different paths are working out/have worked out since college. My highest paid friend started off at 175K out of law school a few years ago and I have other friends who make 6 figures. No one is unemployed.

I don't go around complaining about med school to everyone and I don't have a woe is me attitude. In an earlier post I stated I enjoyed med school and I meant it. That doesn't mean there aren't aspects of it I don't like and that there aren't times when I am envious of aspects of my friend's lives.

Yes med school will eventually lead to a stable career with good pay, but that doesn't mean there aren't times where it sucks and where the lives of my friends look great

I can understand that because your friends are in the top % of earners. Medschool is hard but it doesn't mean you can't enjoy it while you are there and have some sort of social life and go out. So I'm glad you are enjoying Medschool so far.
 
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Yes med school will eventually lead to a stable career with good pay, but that doesn't mean there aren't times where it sucks and where the lives of my friends look great

Almost everything looks good from the outside. Even those rejected to med school think your spot would be heaven on earth. Can't really judge from the outside.
 
i just want to know if it gets better?

i'm at the end of M2 and i feel awful, exhausted and drained. i've spent my whole life studying to be a doctor, and i still want to do it, but i've lost touch with my hobbies and old friends. i do not get along with any of the medical students in my class (and i mean anyone. i always thought i was social but i just can't seem to make friends here). if it wasn't for my significant other, who is not in the medical field, i don't know what i would do. this can't be normal.
 
It doesn't matter if my friends are the exception are not, they are who I compare my lives with and see how the different paths are working out/have worked out since college. My highest paid friend started off at 175K out of law school a few years ago and I have other friends who make 6 figures. No one is unemployed.

Then perhaps the problem is your myopic world view.

And FWIW, my friends are not sociology or business admin majors. They all have engineering or hard science degrees, with a few accountants thrown in for good measure.
 
i just want to know if it gets better?

i'm at the end of M2 and i feel awful, exhausted and drained. i've spent my whole life studying to be a doctor, and i still want to do it, but i've lost touch with my hobbies and old friends. i do not get along with any of the medical students in my class (and i mean anyone. i always thought i was social but i just can't seem to make friends here). if it wasn't for my significant other, who is not in the medical field, i don't know what i would do. this can't be normal.

I don't get along with many people in my class either. Let me put it this way.

At least for my class, cliches form very, very quickly and then all they do is start drama wars, highschool style.

I came from a very liberal undergrad full of accepting people, and then to an environment where people are judged on what they say upon entering a wine store. WTF?

Be glad you aren't a part of the dumb, immature and unprofessional highschool scene.
 
Almost everything looks good from the outside. Even those rejected to med school think your spot would be heaven on earth. Can't really judge from the outside.

Of the course the grass is greener on the other side. I'm not saying I would trade my medical school experience for one of my friend's experiences. I'm saying that's perfectly natural and healthy to feel a little jealousy when you're stuck inside studying for a shelf exam you really don't care about and your friends are partying it up in Hawaii.

Then perhaps the problem is your myopic world view.

And FWIW, my friends are not sociology or business admin majors. They all have engineering or hard science degrees, with a few accountants thrown in for good measure.

I'm not saying I'm not fortunate. I realize I am very fortunate and have been taking full advantage of the position I'm in. With that said there can be times where the grind of med school can wear you down and seeing fun things your friends are doing can exacerbate that feeling. As long as you recognize it when it happens and don't ignore it and become depressed then I think it's a perfectly acceptable response
 
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As everyone keeps saying...it's all relative. You live in the richest country in the world training for a career that will put you in the top 1% of earners in the US.
What do you want people to say? Sucks to be you? My friends make money and I don't? Sucks, but you did choose this, and you could have it much, much worse.

No one is arguing that, taking the long view, most of us have a pretty good deal. I know that there are people out there who do better than docs but, all in all, we are in training for a job most people would kill for and for job security that many of those engineers and lawyers will greatly envy 20 years down the line. We're in the top 5% of this nation and the top 0.1% of the world population.

However the OPs post wasn't about the long view, it was about your current situation, right now, compared with other peoples' situations right now. Right now we are worse off than virtually anyone holding a job in the first world. We are paid nothing, rack up a fortune in debt while living on very little, and work long hours in an enviornment that is both boring and more than occasionally abusive. Consciouslly we know it's a short term sacrifice for a long term gain, but viscerally it rankles a little to be the responsible one when everyone else seems to be having fun, just like it will rankle down the line for the people having fun now when they have to watch the responsible people pass them by.

It is perfectly natural for the ant to resent the grasshopper a little, even if he knows perfectly well who is going to end up freezing come winter. What I think the OP want's you to say is that he's not alone in this, that you can relate, and that you're keeping up the effort because you still think that the reward is worth the sacrifice.
 
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Of the course the grass is greener on the other side. I'm not saying I would trade my medical school experience for one of my friend's experiences. I'm saying that's perfectly natural and healthy to feel a little jealousy when you're stuck inside studying for a shelf exam you really don't care about and your friends are partying it up in Hawaii.

I don't disagree with your points.
 
I'm hesitating to post here because I'm a lowly pre-med, but I do have some life experience under my belt and can speak to the "real world" if not to med school.

Most people in their early and mid twenties who are not in med school are also busting their butts working their way up the corporate ladder. I'm not just talking about investment bankers and those in finance, but also those in other fields such as research or environmental fields. In short, at this age, you have to work hard to eventually have a good career.

It may seem like everyone you know goes to work at 9, gets off at 5, and then goes to the bar for a few hours. But that's not often the case. There are projects to be done, deadlines to meet, and bosses to please so it's not the cake-walk you imagine. And just because we leave work doesn't mean we stop thinking and worrying about it. I oftentimes find myself working on a project after dinner at home or on the weekend.

Yes, there are many people who have those simple 9 to 5s that you're dreaming about. But those who work those jobs probably aren't going to end up in a well-paying, successful career like yours. To get one of those fancy shmancy jobs, you have to work hard in your 20s just like you guys are doing in med school.

I'm not saying it doesn't suck to be a med student because I have no idea about that (yet). What I am saying is that the 9 to 5s you hear about from your friends often turn into much longer work weeks, which include weekends. And most of us get 2-3 weeks of vacation a year, if we're lucky. So that travel you guys mention...well, we don't get to do it as much as it seems.

exactly. people assume dentistry is a cake walk as well. that is not the truth. i dont know a single person that goes in at 9 and leaves at 5. some places offer these 3 week vacations but good luck getting them approved. sometimes it done based on seniority. you may be told your vacation is during a week that sucks for you.

when working a real job you cant just say ok i want vacation time. many times they throw so much work at you that you cannot just go take time off. you basically get screwed by it all and have more work dumped on you when you get back. also, a bad work environment can affect you entire time off from work. having to work on projects and meet strict deadlines where your job is on the line is very stressful.

your hours can be changed on you in a moments notice. someone can tell you they NEED you on weekends (office space, it really happens and that movie is a true life documentary).

the grass isnt always greener!
 
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You don't often hear about doctors doing temp work, or an entire hospital being laid off, either.
 
You don't often hear about doctors doing temp work, or an entire hospital being laid off, either.

actually that is the opposite. i know a transplant surgeon that was doing temp work bc he couldnt find a job as a transplant surgeon. he even considered another fellowship.
 
No one is arguing that, taking the long view, most of us have a pretty good deal. I know that there are people out there who do better than docs but, all in all, we are in training for a job most people would kill for and for job security that many of those engineers and lawyers will greatly envy 20 years down the line. We're in the top 5% of this nation and the top 0.1% of the world population.

However the OPs post wasn't about the long view, it was about your current situation, right now, compared with other peoples' situations right now. Right now we are worse off than virtually anyone holding a job in the first world. We are paid nothing, rack up a fortune in debt while living on very little, and work long hours in an enviornment that is both boring and more than occasionally abusive. Consciouslly we know it's a short term sacrifice for a long term gain, but viscerally it rankles a little to be the responsible one when everyone else seems to be having fun, just like it will rankle down the line for the people having fun now when they have to watch the responsible people pass them by.

It is perfectly natural for the ant to resent the grasshopper a little, even if he knows perfectly well who is going to end up freezing come winter. What I think the OP want's you to say is that he's not alone in this, that you can relate, and that you're keeping up the effort because you still think that the reward is worth the sacrifice.

No you don't. You get money for living expenses so that you can learn. You are not doing anything so it isn't really a job. So studying a lot is worse than working in intense heat and standing on your feet all day? There are many jobs that are worse than medschool. And what do you mean live on very little? Most medstudents I know live decent. While M2 year is very challenging the material is pretty interesting. And on M1 year you have time to do many things if you manage your time.

Also you rack up debt because you aren't really working you are learning. Graduate students get paid because they TA students and do lab work. If you look at the situation right now the money situation is pretty good considering you have lenders who will lend you a very large amount of money.
 
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Right now we are worse off than virtually anyone holding a job in the first world. We are paid nothing, rack up a fortune in debt while living on very little, and work long hours in an enviornment that is both boring and more than occasionally abusive.

Bit melodramatic don't you think? It's STUDYING. Ya, sure it's not judging a wet t-shirt contest in Cancun while sipping margaritas, but you're not working as a day laborer for $7 an hour either.

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Consciouslly we know it's a short term sacrifice for a long term gain, but viscerally it rankles a little to be the responsible one when everyone else SEEMS to be having fun, just like it will rankle down the line for the people having fun now when they have to watch the responsible people pass them by.

I think "seems" is the important word to note here. 😉
 
If you don't like the med student life then quit. You're not Jesus nailed to a cross suffering for everyone's sins by going to med school. This may be hard for you to accept, but people before you have completed medical school.

And there are those of us here who have at least gone to med school. It's so great that we have all these omniscient premeds here to tell it like it is. No need to be such an ass.
 
I've gotten pretty envious of some of my non-med student friends who are not working, or doing anything productive, but just hanging out with friends and having fun. Especially on a sunny day... the envy kicks in. It happens. It's not the end of the world. Isn't the grass ALWAYS greener on the other side? LOL
 
When I see posts like the OP's, it makes me think that there must be vast differences in workload between their medical school and mine. My school is PBL-based for the basic science years, which might have something to do with it, but I still had plenty of time to participate in extracurriculars and go out and enjoy myself, so I certainly didn't feel like I was constantly studying. I was definitely working harder than I did during undergrad, but it still wasn't as bad as I had expected.

Even during third year, I didn't think things were all that bad. Here, surgery and ob/gyn are very busy and, yes, getting up before sunrise sucks, but, in comparison, rotations like psych and FM were a breeze.

Now, as a fourth year, life is wonderful. I matched into a rather competitive residency program, which by all accounts is completely non-malignant, and I'm enjoying some time off before intern year. I expect that intern year will be tough, but after that it should get better every year.

I should point out that I'm a traditional MD student (straight from undergrad), I'm not married, I don't have kids, and I'm not currently involved in a serious relationship. To be honest, that probably helps keep my stress level low.

The debt is definitely the worst part, IMO, but the vast majority of physicians find a way to deal with it.

Maybe I'm just an optimist.
 
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However the OPs post wasn't about the long view, it was about your current situation, right now, compared with other peoples' situations right now. Right now we are worse off than virtually anyone holding a job in the first world. We are paid nothing, rack up a fortune in debt while living on very little, and work long hours in an enviornment that is both boring and more than occasionally abusive. Consciouslly we know it's a short term sacrifice for a long term gain, but viscerally it rankles a little to be the responsible one when everyone else seems to be having fun, just like it will rankle down the line for the people having fun now when they have to watch the responsible people pass them by.
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1) It's called an investment.
2) go ask your unemployed friends who are out frolicking in the sun if they would trade places with you. Unless someone is a trust fund baby, or works part time as minka kellys thong, nobody just enjoys life for a living.
 
I don't get along with many people in my class either. Let me put it this way.

At least for my class, cliches form very, very quickly and then all they do is start drama wars, highschool style.

I came from a very liberal undergrad full of accepting people, and then to an environment where people are judged on what they say upon entering a wine store. WTF?

Be glad you aren't a part of the dumb, immature and unprofessional highschool scene.

you're definitely right. it just gets so annoying always having to be on your guard about what to say/do because people will inevitably interpret things the wrong way. i think it's worse now too for me because everyone is super strung out with step 1 coming up.

by the way, are you really MDJDMPH? that's impressive!
 
you're definitely right. it just gets so annoying always having to be on your guard about what to say/do because people will inevitably interpret things the wrong way. i think it's worse now too for me because everyone is super strung out with step 1 coming up.

by the way, are you really MDJDMPH? that's impressive!

I am not, but executor selendis sure is.
 
well i feel angry and frustrated when i look at my class mate who dont study through out the whole session with unlimited enjoyment all the time and then end with a hell good score,,,,,i just hate them to the extent that i dont know myself!!!!!!!!
 
I only get depressed when I see CLASSMATES doing as well or better than me in class enjoying life, because that means I'm doing something wrong.
 
I currently work full time doing clinical research. Its a great job, and I work 9 hours a day with weekends off. But I must admit, by the time I get off work, drive home in rush hour traffic, and eat something, I don't have that much time before its time to go to bed and get up and do it again. Plus, the job is repetitive and gets boring quickly. I've also already lived it up in my twenties, and I realized that its not all its cracked up to be. Most of my friends have kids and are married, and trust me, they are far from "living it up". Everybody tries to make their life seem so fun and great (especially on facebook). Its just a different lifestyle, different struggle. Their lives are different, not better. Just my two cents.
 
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No you don't. You get money for living expenses so that you can learn. You are not doing anything so it isn't really a job. So studying a lot is worse than working in intense heat and standing on your feet all day? There are many jobs that are worse than medschool. And what do you mean live on very little? Most medstudents I know live decent. While M2 year is very challenging the material is pretty interesting. And on M1 year you have time to do many things if you manage your time.

Also you rack up debt because you aren't really working you are learning. Graduate students get paid because they TA students and do lab work. If you look at the situation right now the money situation is pretty good considering you have lenders who will lend you a very large amount of money.

Oh please. I wasen't planning on chiming in, but this is the most concieted piece of bull**** I've ever heard in my entire life.

You apparently have no concept of mental fatigue versus physical fatigue.

I'll be suprised if you're as competent as your medical collegues in the concept of mental health versus physical health as well.

We're not doing anything? My ass we're not doing anything. We're studying our butts off so we can take care of the general populace - 90% of whom are idiots who could prevent their medical problems if they would just exercise and eat right.

We're the ones who lock ourselves in closets so that we can ultimately take out society's dog****. What we're doing is actually an incredible public (or private, however you want to look at it) service - why shouldn't we get paid for it all along the way?
 
1) It's called an investment.
2) go ask your unemployed friends who are out frolicking in the sun if they would trade places with you. Unless someone is a trust fund baby, or works part time as minka kellys thong, nobody just enjoys life for a living.

Again, another idiot perspective. You, along with a suprising high percentage of those who I've ran into in the medical profession, have a sickening element of both solipsism and masochism.

If you think that nobody "just enjoys life" then what are you living for? If you are somehow appreciative of the fact that your ass is getting handed to you, even though you ARE in medical school, then something is wrong with you.

And you're also incredibly quick to assume that things are so much better for you than they are for everyone else. It really shocks me that people with such arragance are going into the medical profession.
 
Mr Cheetah is an angry elf in all threads.

Someone needs a hug.
 
We're the ones who lock ourselves in closets so that we can ultimately take out society's dog****. What we're doing is actually an incredible public (or private, however you want to look at it) service - why shouldn't we get paid for it all along the way?

Because you signed a contract to perform said service for no compensation, perhaps? Medical programs seem to be doing a pretty good job of filling seats with their current salary range offering...
 
It's really up to the individual to manage their level of happiness.

Instead of chastising those of our colleagues who are having a tough time, let's just try to comfort them and move on, ok?
 
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Because you signed a contract to perform said service for no compensation, perhaps? Medical programs seem to be doing a pretty good job of filling seats with their current salary range offering...

What you've just stated is the biggest insult and least helpful thing you can possibly say to a person who is either miserable in medical school or who is contemplating leaving the profession.

What is it exactly that you mean with that babble?

Are you trying to pressure someone who may be miserable in the study a reason to stick with it although they are... miserable?

Or, are you trying to convince a person that he or she is an idiot for not enjoying life while in medical school because there are so many others who "say" they want to be there? (Nevermind the fact that they don't know what they are getting themselves into, and judging by your pre-med status, neither do you.)

In either case, let me be the first to say, even if I'm the only one to say it, very loudly, that you are not being helpful.

You should be absolutely ashamed of pulling this contract bull**** out of your ass as well.
 
If you're miserable, then leave, it's that simple. We all our medical students and we all have to study for the same standardized tests. Times are tough, but I (don't know about others) am definitely not "miserable" at the end of the day. If I'm a masochist, then so be it, but I'm still happy and not miserable.
 
We're not doing anything? My ass we're not doing anything. We're studying our butts off so we can take care of the general populace - 90% of whom are idiots who could prevent their medical problems if they would just exercise and eat right.

We're the ones who lock ourselves in closets so that we can ultimately take out society's dog****. What we're doing is actually an incredible public (or private, however you want to look at it) service - why shouldn't we get paid for it all along the way?

LOL, speaking of conceited....
 
What you've just stated is the biggest insult and least helpful thing you can possibly say to a person who is either miserable in medical school or who is contemplating leaving the profession.

What is it exactly that you mean with that babble?

Are you trying to pressure someone who may be miserable in the study a reason to stick with it although they are... miserable?

Or, are you trying to convince a person that he or she is an idiot for not enjoying life while in medical school because there are so many others who "say" they want to be there? (Nevermind the fact that they don't know what they are getting themselves into, and judging by your pre-med status, neither do you.)

In either case, let me be the first to say, even if I'm the only one to say it, very loudly, that you are not being helpful.

You should be absolutely ashamed of pulling this contract bull**** out of your ass as well.

I'm trying to answer the inane question you posted at the end of your last rant. Why should you be paid? You shouldn't, because you agreed to a training pathway that doesn't pay a salary or stipend. Full stop. What about that don't you understand? You can keep trying to bash me over the head because of my pre-med status. Hint: I'm older, and more experienced, than you in essentially every area of life except for being a first year medical student. You've got me on those 9 months; I win on everything else. What exactly do you want for responses to the questions you pose? I said it in your other bellyaching thread, and I'll say it here, if you just want people to console you and pat you on the head, then ask for that instead of posing questions that, on their face, look like something you want an honest answer to. I'll pat you on the back if you want; just ask.
 
I'm trying to answer the inane question you posted at the end of your last rant. Why should you be paid? You shouldn't, because you agreed to a training pathway that doesn't pay a salary or stipend. Full stop. What about that don't you understand? You can keep trying to bash me over the head because of my pre-med status. Hint: I'm older, and more experienced, than you in essentially every area of life except for being a first year medical student. You've got me on those 9 months; I win on everything else. What exactly do you want for responses to the questions you pose? I said it in your other bellyaching thread, and I'll say it here, if you just want people to console you and pat you on the head, then ask for that instead of posing questions that, on their face, look like something you want an honest answer to. I'll pat you on the back if you want; just ask.

And you think that the best way to answer my question is to say that medical students aren't offered a stipend / salary / etc. because of some "contract".

You should expect to be called out on your bull****, I think that in your 32 years of "experience" that you would know that.

I'll tell you exactly what I want and what I imagine everyone else wants when they pose a question to the community: Responses that are helpful and that are not riddled with bull****.
 
And you think that the best way to answer my question is to say that medical students aren't offered a stipend / salary / etc. because of some "contract".

You should expect to be called out on your bull****, I think that in your 32 years of "experience" that you would know that.

I'll tell you exactly what I want and what I imagine everyone else wants when they pose a question to the community: Responses that are helpful and that are not riddled with bull****.

What do you think a helpful response to the question "why shouldn't we (medical students) get paid along the way?" should look like?

I'll leave it to you to start the discussion. The reason YOU, MrCheetah, don't get paid, is because you took a job that doesn't pay for the period during which you are a trainee. Did you not know that on your first day of orientation as an MS1? Was that a surprise? Were any of your classmates surprised that they weren't going to be pulling down a paycheck? Were you surprised that medical school would be the hardest thing you've ever done? You can continue to feel like you *deserve* to get paid, and that not getting paid is a great reason to be so sadly bitter. Let me know how that works out. I feel sorry for you.
 
My ass we're not doing anything. We're studying our butts off so we can take care of the general populace - 90% of whom are idiots who could prevent their medical problems if they would just exercise and eat right. We're the ones who lock ourselves in closets so that we can ultimately take out society's dog****.

Did you express this on your personal statement? :laugh:
 
Oh please. I wasen't planning on chiming in, but this is the most concieted piece of bull**** I've ever heard in my entire life.

You apparently have no concept of mental fatigue versus physical fatigue.

I'll be suprised if you're as competent as your medical collegues in the concept of mental health versus physical health as well.

We're not doing anything? My ass we're not doing anything. We're studying our butts off so we can take care of the general populace - 90% of whom are idiots who could prevent their medical problems if they would just exercise and eat right.

We're the ones who lock ourselves in closets so that we can ultimately take out society's dog****. What we're doing is actually an incredible public (or private, however you want to look at it) service - why shouldn't we get paid for it all along the way?

:laugh:

No you are not doing any WORK. You are just STUDYING. You are just learning the basic sciences. And you are not the only professional student who works hard.

In residency you are learning and doing work which is why you are getting paid in residency. Doctors are not saints we get paid for what we do. Some feel like doctors should get paid more and they are entitled to it.

If the goverment paid for schooling salaries would also most likely go down as well.

And its not my fault you lock yourself in the closet. M2 is hard but if you have to do that as a M1 you really need better studying habits.

You are not even a doctor yet you talk with an attitude like you have actually done something. And those who worked REALLY hard get scholarships. Also you have plenty of oppurtunities to pay off medical school debt by working in an underserved area for a few years (and no not all the places are in the middle of nowhere).
 
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And you think that the best way to answer my question is to say that medical students aren't offered a stipend / salary / etc. because of some "contract".

You should expect to be called out on your bull****, I think that in your 32 years of "experience" that you would know that.

I'll tell you exactly what I want and what I imagine everyone else wants when they pose a question to the community: Responses that are helpful and that are not riddled with bull****.
You could start by posting responses that are helpful.
 
In residency you are learning and doing work which is why you are getting paid in residency.
More realistically, you're getting paid as a resident because you can no longer take out loans to pay for your living expenses, and hospitals don't pay for our living expenses or provide resident housing like they used to. In lieu of that, they pay us. And by pay us, I mean that they allow some of the money that CMS gives them to pass through their hands onto us.
 
What do you think a helpful response to the question "why shouldn't we (medical students) get paid along the way?" should look like?

I'll leave it to you to start the discussion. The reason YOU, MrCheetah, don't get paid, is because you took a job that doesn't pay for the period during which you are a trainee. Did you not know that on your first day of orientation as an MS1? Was that a surprise? Were any of your classmates surprised that they weren't going to be pulling down a paycheck? Were you surprised that medical school would be the hardest thing you've ever done? You can continue to feel like you *deserve* to get paid, and that not getting paid is a great reason to be so sadly bitter. Let me know how that works out. I feel sorry for you.

Of course, you make the obvious point.

However, my suggestion was a little less superficial than that.

And I'll remind you that you still did initially try to make your point by pulling some **** out of your ass.

I think that there is a very strong argument to be made that medical students should have their training paid for by the government and given a small stipend to live off of. Just take a look at the way medical education works in Western European countries. Its essentially free compared to how we have it here.

I don't feel as if I deserve to get "paid" per say, but I feel that I do deserve to become educated without having to pay off $400k + in loans to do so, especially if I'm passing up more financially lucrative career opportunities to do so. Its an appalling amount of punishment to take to get into a career in which your sole purpose is to "serve others".

I'm not aganist "paying your dues" when it comes to most professions, except medicine.

If a kid wants to get to the top of a Wall Street investment firm and needs to pay his dues - thats fine. Banking is a, relatively speaking, selfish profession, he is getting paid a good wage while he is "paying dues", and he has the potential to make millions per year in a senior position. He knows that he is being exploited by his superiors, but its not a big deal for all of the reasons above.

In medicine there is a similar concept of "paying your dues", however none of the above applies to this profession. Not only are you not getting paid while you are "paying them", but you are going several hundred thousand dollars into debt if you're in school, and are making a low wage while a resident, not to mention the fact that you, at this point, are getting absolutely no assistance with that 200-300k+ debt. You're not even on track to make half of what an equally intelligent person who goes into finance or business and spends equal time rising the ranks or growing will pull in.

However, most of us see medicine as something that is "safe", and "secure", and most people, the scared bunch that we all are, will pay quite a high price for security. Yes, even if it is over 1 million dollars when we calculate our opportunity cost and account for it. Yes, even if we are stressed, overworked, and take on a shorter life expectancy because of it.

Some of us, though, do have a genuine desire to help others, and have a passion for medicine and science. Some of us are extremely and rational as well, and realize that despite this passion we might not lead a happy life due to the reasons above. We have "altrustic" merit, but realize our first priority must be to take care of ourselves, even if it ultimately leaves others worse off.

This is one of the problems with the current system: It punishes those types of people who are the most responsible.

There are two broad factors which compel most people to enter medical school: The money and prestige associated with being a doctor, and a sheer interest in medicine and serving others.

I don't know about you, but I'm undoubtedly one of those idealistic few who could care less about the money and prestige factor. Its for the medicine and ultimately for the service to humanity that I'm in this for, however my top priority is, and always will be, to take care of myself first.

And to pre-empt a retort I'm sure someone will make in which they say "Bullocks, you're given money to take care of yourself," I'll tell you exactly what I mean; I have a simultaneously liberal and very modest definition of what taking care of myself means. It means being able to have a roof over my head, healthy food to eat, and time to exercise and form meaningful relationships with people (having the capacity to be both mentally and physically healthy, in other words). It means having the freedom to perform all of my life's actions by choice, not by force, and to have no restrictions on my ability to achieve any of these extremely modest ends.

One of the things which you've hammered upon several times is that its not a "huge loss" if someone decides not to go to medical school, or to drop out, because "someone else will gladly step up". And I agree with you to the extent that if someone who was casually looking for a vocation who happened to be considering medicine were to decide upon another that it wouldn't be a huge deal. But when there arises even a slight proclivity among those with more noble merits to be forced away from medicine because of the cost, the time, stress, or any of those other reasons which would make it a "bad" profession to go into, its a greater injustice that the patients are the ones who ultimately lose, not necessarily the non-matriculants who I feel you so desperately want it to be.

Most of us medical students are not taken care of in any way in the standard I mention above. Sure, we can choose to go into the profession or not, however after a year or so into training we are more-or-less slaves to our debts and are reasonably, financially forced to go through with it whether happy and mentally healthy or not. We will be stressed and work vigiriously and work long hours at various times throughout our training.

This would be acceptable if, by the end, there was some big payoff that we were fervently working toward. For many of us there is a payoff; we get a job that pays above the average wage that seems to be reasonably secure for the forseeable future, and of course we get to wear that white coat too. Though, For those of us who go into the field because of those more "noble" factors I mention above there isn't a similar payoff. The closest we get to one is that which we gain from that which is not money, nor prestige or status. Its some form of satisfaction at our deeds which comes from within. Its a nice feeling, but we are quick to forget everything that we both give and give up to attain it. Perhaps we shouldn't.
 
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