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Sometimes withdrawing from their social activities can be seen as being stuck up or uncaring. This can generate resentment in some people.
You can't please everyone. Even if it's not true, it's not worth your energy to get each and every person to love you. Just do you.
Also, sometimes there is the quick assumption that withdrawing from one invitation = withdrawing from all future invites. For most people, they are understanding that people are busy, or just don't feel like going out.
I tend to be more on the introverted side and at times like to be a homebody. Sometimes, people can see this as being the same thing(stuck up, uncaring). That couldn't be further from the truth. I love to hang out with friends and peers in addition to not be at home and out and about. However, I wouldn't go out of my way to prove that point. I'd let people figure that on their own.