All of this.
As a non-trad in my 30’s, I often feel this way. The level of immaturity, unprofessionalism, and bigotry that is tolerated in medicine is unlike anything I have ever experienced in a corporate setting. I have heard doctors, classmates, and professors say and do absolutely abhorrent things and I am consistently stunned. Hell, even the fact that kids drink after am exams and go on to the next class weirds me out lol.
I suppose that when you do have professional experience, you approach school the way that you approach work, so anything to the contrary feels inappropriate. And, well, it is.
Regarding the mean-spiritedness of it all, I do think the average age of students entering medical school in concert with the fact that these are kids with highly limited work/ life experience, feeds into this—well into residency and beyond. It actually reminds me of the hazing students do in college within the Greek system—one progresses and treats the new batch of pledges like crap. Not to mention the fact that many students carry with them the notion that “MD = financially and intellectually superior.” I think this contributes a great deal to the disrespect I see towards nurses, techs, PAs, etc.
Long story short, many young students have understandably, never had the benefit of truly having their a$$ handed to them by work or life. I think this makes disappointment and consequence much harder to handle and the practice of medicine becomes even more daunting than it already can be. I dont necessarily believe all students should wait until they were almost 40 to begin a career in medicine, but pre-school to doctor simply doesn’t make sense to me.