My toddler (at the time) son and I went with my husband on an ADT to Lackland in 1996......he was billeted at the VOQ and we thought that we could stay there......their only written stipulation was that no one could sleep on the couches, and since my son slept in a port-a-crib, we thought everything was fine UNTIL WE GOT KICKED OUT. Apparently, despite any written rule that we had found, children were not allowed in the VOQ. The rest of our month was spent rotating through cheap hotels close to the base. Not fun, especially for me when DH was taking call.
So ask very specific questions about this ahead of time!