OMG - whatever! You ask for people's opinion and then get your feelings hurt when you don't hear what you were looking for. Then you say things like "I'm going to stop writing in this thread now" and start posts with titles like "People are being mean to me."
And one day you are saying that you don't want to be a pharmacist, and the next day you are talking about applying early decision, which is for highly committed, motivated pharmacy applicants.
You wonder why people disagree?
Optometry and Pharmacy are very different fields and very different working environments. I'd start working now on figuring out which one you really want and focus on preparing yourself for that. Interviewers are going to be able to tell if you haven't done the research to determine if the field is really right for you.
I'd like to help you. We're about the same age, we're both doing career changes, going back to school etc. Of course, I don't live with my parents, but I digress! My point is, the attitude that you project on this board has made me and probably others feel like giving you advice is not a productive use of our time.
That's all!