Originally posted by 12R34Y
In response to purifier...........our ethics debates that occur in small groups and in a larger setting are OVERWHELMINGLY in agreement with the pro-life movement.
Well that's hardly a debate then is it.
It is completely accepted and mainstream practice to not refer to abortionist and to discourage the patients you are charged with care for.
You seem to have missed my point. I am not asking you to refer to an abortionist. I am asking you to realise you are in no position to care for a patient in this situation. Read my last post as to why. I am asking you to refer to another doctor who then can decide if he should refer to an abortionist or not.
Completely accepted and mainstream? Umm. If it is completely accepted why are we arguing?
Don't you realize that ethics is a debatable subject and there is usually at least 10 ways to skin a cat.
You seemed to have missed my point again, this is my point. Ethics is a debatable subject. Why are your ethical views any more valid than your patients ethical views?
Let's tackle the "great commandment" of pro abortion movement. By the way it is pro abortion because you are for allowing abortion to occur right? does that not make you pro abortion? if you are repulsed by abortion and aren't "for it" then why are you for the choice of abortion...........don't you agree with the "choice" of abortion.....no way out of that one.
No I am not pro abortion. As I doctor I will have a choice of various treatments, A-Z. Merely because I weigh up the pros and cons of all treatments, and decide (with the patients help) on which one is more suited for my patients needs, does not make me PRO TREATMENT OPTION "F". I will not force my views onto others, if an abortion is a viable treatment option, then it will be discussed.
You however, would never even consider abortion (or in my example, option F) even if it is in the best biopsychosocial interests of the patient. This makes you anti-abortion.
"We're not making YOU have an abortion, so why can't you be tolerant of those who choose to?".........translated........"Don't impose your antiquated morals on me."
At first it may sound reasonable, but it is still yet another weakness.......and one of the same arguments spouted ad nauseum.
"Don't like rape? Don't rape anyone.....Just don't impose your morality on me." same reasoning right?
No, this is not the same reasoning. (i) Rape has no potential benefit to the patient, abortion has (POTENTIAL - I'm not saying it is good or bad) benefit (ii) Rape is the same as anti-abortion in some respects; it is done completely rejecting the autonomy of the person, giving someone the option of abortion gives them autonomy. (iii) Rape is illegal. Abortion is not. (iv) Why do you feel the need to impose your morality on anyone? I'm not imposing my morality on you, merely trying to make you realise that just because a patients views differ to yours, does not make those views wrong.
Tolerance usually brings in a religious attack of some sort. Pro abortionists argue that government should not take one theory of life and impose it on others.
OBVOIUS PROBLEM with this......is that not only is the pro abrotion position FORCED on Christians and pro life folks, but we are also required to FUND IT!.
Amazingly, pro abortionists fail to perceive their own violation of this standard!
No this is not a double standard. No one is forcing a good christian to have an abortion. You are however implying that good christians should be able to force others not to have an abortion. Do you not see the arrogance here? Why is their morality ANY better than anyone elses? I think I have repeated this many times but noone has answered.
As I have said before, I am not a pro abortionist, the very word is laughable... What am I going to do, go running around hospitals spiking patients' drinks with abortifacients?
We are not your enemy. Stop seeing things in black and white. Those who support patient's right to choose don't have to support the patient's actions.
Every society has the obligation to impose morals on its citizens. Toleration works in the world of expressing opinions, NOT in a crowded movie theater when someone yells, "FIRE!"
Why? Every society has the obligation to enact laws to prevent the reduction in liberty of her citizens from murder, crime, oppression. If you are a transgressor of law, you will be punished accordingly. Society has the obligation to follow the laws.
Separation of church and state does not extend to divorcing all moral values from the state........if this were the case then we would eliminate all legislation that hs anything in common with a religious point of view!
What, are you against masturbation as well? Anal sex? Oral sex? What if a homosexual man needs your help as a doctor, he needs you to educate him about safe sex. Are you going to tell him that homosexual sex is wrong? Pressure him into meeting some hairy girls instead?
LOGIC ISN"T WORKING GUYS!!
No logic is working. You are simply in a mindset in which you will not listen to reason. I am not asking you to change your morality... why should I. I am merely asking you to recognise that you cannot possibly care for pregnant women who need help. This does not make you a bad doctor.
An example:
I am against minors having sex. I believe it is wrong. If a teenage female came to me requesting contraception, I may not give her the proper advice, and I may not prescribe the best treatment for her (remember she is the one who needs treatment, not us). Right from the start I would be reluctant to give advice or even offer contraception... I do not want to condone something I find morally repulsive.
We are in exactly the same boat 12R34Y! The difference is, I realise that my morality is neither better or worse than hers. I realise, if I act in a bigotted and morally superior manner, I will be indirectly harming her health (she would leave without contraception, or any idea about 'safe sex'). In this situation I realise my own limitations, and would instantly refer her to a more open minded doctor.
I'm not saying your views are right or wrong. I'm merely saying you have a clearly vested interest in avoiding certain treatments even if they are in the patient's best interest. This will mean patient care IS compromised.
You sound like someone who genuinely cares about people. Why would you then knowingly advise patients on issues in which you know you have a conflict of interest? If you honestly care about your patients and their unborn children, please realise your limitations as a human.
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