Actually, no. That's not what I was saying. I meant one-sided because you only blamed the girl for the contraception (No, I blame the guy too, but the reality is that the woman is the one who gets pregnant. If she wants to avoid that, then she is going to have to take control of the situation) and pessimistic because you posed your answer in a way that sounds like all abortion occurs due to lack of contraception. (Nope. Just most of it.) 50% of pregnancies in this nation are unplanned...(What does this have to do with anything? unplanned =/= unwanted). many of those women are not 15 (right, some of them are 13, 14, 16, and 17, There exact age is unimportant, especially if they are a minor) and many are actually using contraception that was either misused or failed. (So how many is "many"? I know that according to hollywood all abortions are a result of lustful abusive daddies and broken condoms. The reality is much less so. Either way, it does not change the fact that the goal for those who support abortion on demand is to be able to have sex w/ a person with whom you do not want to have children. If that is the case, at least be honest about it.) So while your opinion on when an abortion should/should not occur is your opinion, I would argue that I highly doubt the good majority of women are using abortion as a form of birth control (If they are having an abortion because they are pregnant with a baby that they don't want, then it is birth control). Maybe you do; it's anecdotal (So is every thing you have said). Just as its anecdotal for me to say that the women I've come across/worked with find it an emotional process (good to hear that they weren't calloused about it) and weren't just okay as using it for contraception (what did they use it for then).
FWIW, yes, follow the law.