Ever been attracted to the doc you're shadowing?

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I can't help but be attracted to the doctor I'm shadowing lol. I don't think I've ever respected or admired someone so much. Just wondering if anyone else has been in this situation :)

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I suspect that this will be a non-issue, and maybe even a good thing as long as it's NOT too obvious to bystanders. If, for example, you and the doctor (let's say s/he is attracted back), are blushing at each other with sparkling eyes and using flirtatious voices, it may seem unprofessional, esp. if the doctor writes an LoR.

Just be self aware!
 
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Well, considering that I met the doc I'm currently shadowing on Grindr... yeah.
 
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I can't help but be attracted to the doctor I'm shadowing lol. I don't think I've ever respected or admired someone so much. Just wondering if anyone else has been in this situation :)

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Here's a twist: Did s/he use to be your doctor?
 
You're obviously idealizing them. This is a classic example of the power differential at play. Keep it in your pants.

Maybe, but truly there aren't many people I respect besides my parents. His dedication to his job is incredible and he's so caring about his patients even when they're not around to see it.
 
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What kind of age differential are we talking here?
 
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All the docs I've shadowed were old. One was semi-retired.
 
I shadowed a hot fellow once. It was great.
 
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Hahahaha yes... well, it's usually the med student or resident working with the doctor I'm shadowing. It's completely innocent, and it does make me excited about medicine. :angelic:
 
Hahahaha yes... well, it's usually the med student or resident working with the doctor I'm shadowing. It's completely innocent, and it does make me excited about medicine. :angelic:

;):love: same
 
9/10 for this one. I definitely chuckled, if only because I have definitely met one or two physicians on Grindr. They were quite pleasant, if you must know.

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Has said doctor been attracted to yours truly? Yes. Have I been attracted to said doctor, meh.
 
Not a doctor, but a dentist and a police officer :D
 
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