My nemesis was in residency. She thought I did uneccessary procedures in the ER just for the fun of it. It all started with this whiny 16 year old kid with a headache. He whined so much that I ended up doing an LP which he did NOT tolerate. We had to do a conscious sedation on him in and it was quite the ordeal. Every patient after that was like pulling teeth to get her to do anything.
My least favorite nurse currently is actually a nurse practitioner (just finished school, but hasn't found a job yet as a nurse practitioner). She refuses to do anything without a signed order before hand. Most nurses help you out and will do a verbal order or at least stick the chart in front of you for an order when things are less busy.
The other day, I had a 16 week pregnant lady who had been vomiting all night. Most nurses know that the patient needs an IV, but this nurse just sat on her butt doing nothing waiting for me to see her before she got the ball rolling.
This nurse questions a lot of the things I do. At first, I tried to see it from her perspective, and have discussions about treatment and diagnosis decisions, but I'm getting tired of it. The last straw was the other day when we had an SSRI overdose patient. His QTc was high end of normal and poison control had been on the phone and said that if it increases to consider alkalinization. This nurse said, "What good would giving him more alkalinization, his alkaline phosphatase is already high?" ...Me thinking in my head, "Wow, where do I start?" In the end, you can't reason with someone that ill-informed.
I guess, if it is a soft call on a certain lab test, or intervention, you should admit that to the nurse and try to discuss the positives and negatives with the nurse and discuss your thought processes that led to your orders.
Most of all, don't sweat it. Even seasoned nurses get bad attitudes and down-play patient symptoms. I'd listen to nurses who think you are minimizing patient complaints and want you to do more for the patient. I'd politely ignore nurses who are down-playing patient complaints and want you to do less for the patient (usually meaning less work for the nurse).