Hi,
I have been a long time lurker but thought I would create an account. I'm currently doing my residency and in good standing so far. I am also recently divorced (happened before I started residency).
I found out recently that my ex-husband has been calling my PD at my program and telling him a lot of information about my personal life (my family issues, lies about me, etc) and I found out from my PD that this is what he was telling them. My PD provided a front in which he felt sorry for me and asked if I needed any counseling or personal time. I told him that I was fine and I'm used to my ex-husband doing this.
I am in a small program in a very community oriented hospital and my PD has been my attending for quite a few rotations as we have limited faculty. I was shocked to find out from a nurse who told me that my PD has been telling a lot of staff, social workers, and other residents about some of my personal information which causes my reputation to be tarnished in front of these people.
I really felt like anything like this should have been kept confidential and not be used as social gossip. Doesn't my PD have to have a signed release of information from me stating its ok for him to speak with others about me? Has anyone been in a situation like this in the past?
Thanks for any advice.
I have been a long time lurker but thought I would create an account. I'm currently doing my residency and in good standing so far. I am also recently divorced (happened before I started residency).
I found out recently that my ex-husband has been calling my PD at my program and telling him a lot of information about my personal life (my family issues, lies about me, etc) and I found out from my PD that this is what he was telling them. My PD provided a front in which he felt sorry for me and asked if I needed any counseling or personal time. I told him that I was fine and I'm used to my ex-husband doing this.
I am in a small program in a very community oriented hospital and my PD has been my attending for quite a few rotations as we have limited faculty. I was shocked to find out from a nurse who told me that my PD has been telling a lot of staff, social workers, and other residents about some of my personal information which causes my reputation to be tarnished in front of these people.
I really felt like anything like this should have been kept confidential and not be used as social gossip. Doesn't my PD have to have a signed release of information from me stating its ok for him to speak with others about me? Has anyone been in a situation like this in the past?
Thanks for any advice.