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Alright so I'm a freshman undergrad student at cornell studying engineering. I'm at the point where I could major in whatever I want, but the classes I choose, along with the internships and activities I do, will separate my career apart.
I'm at a crossroad, one path leads to becoming a doctor and the other leads to doing business. All my life I was 99% sure I wanted to become a doctor until these last couple of years where I've been told by actual doctors that if they had the opportunity to restart, they'd go into a different career. But I have racked over 600 hours volunteering in clinics, hospitals and er rooms (in HS). I have done 3 internships all based on medicine. I know what it takes to get into medical school and I have a clear idea of what I need to do. Whereas for investment banking, I just have a vague idea of what's required to become one.
If I go into medical school, I'll major in biological engineering which will overlap with the med school requirements.
If I go into something like finance/investment banking (trading), there's a major called operations research where bank firms can directly recruit from.
My goals for this job are just to able to support family, pay bills, get a house..etc) and earn around 200-250k, 10 years after I start.
So I'm asking you to put yourself in my situation, with my resources and make a decision with the fact you would do something that your good at***. Of course you would need to take into consideration job security and how hard it is to get into both careers
You sound like someone who wants the secret to living a happy mildly rich life in the suburbs with exactly 2.1 kids and a nice monstrosity of a house that blends in with all the other cookie cutter McMansions. Or without the sarcasm and assumptions: you sound like someone who wants to know what the key is to a happy life.
Not gonna get it bro
We can't tell you how to achieve that goal. You have to struggle through life like the rest of us schlubs... If you're going to start planning out your life step-by-step, you'll only set yourself up for disappointment. Find a mentor, talk to them but, more importantly, listen to them. Double major if you can't decide, find a way to pick between two options that you can train for so that when you graduate you still have the option to pick either.
Try i-banking and hate it and quit and apply to medical school. OR love i-banking, or love the money and stay in...and then at 35 get laid off b/c of the next financial crisis and go to medicine OR think i-banking is for blood-suckers and go into medicine and love it and only make $100k/yr OR think i-banking is great and medicine would be nice too, but you really love engineering! These permutations could continue ad infinitum
There are very few people who know exactly what they want to do from high school and do it, in my experience, at least. You are young and you have so much life to live, stop trying to pretend like you can control it. The more you make life try to fit into your plans the more unhappy you will be.
Cheesy, cliche suggetions:
Be humble. Listen more than you speak. Be frugal, but generous. Love. Appreciate the journey as much as the destination. Embrace change and the unexpected. Choose a career for its own merits and let the money sort it self out...
I grew up quite happy in a family of six (four siblings) where my dad made less than $50k/yr until I was in my teens when he started making $60k/yr. If you live your life chasing after money, you might get to the end of your life and find out that you had not truly lived. Money isn't bad, its the pursuit of money that can be quite corrupting.
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