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I vaguely remember interviewers saying that there was a particular day during the cycle when the schools share their lists. Aka - you need to be holding only one spot by then.
Does anyone know what that date is?
I hope you are not intending on holding spots so late into the cycle.......😡
Subdoc, no one was saying that a certain predent was not the better candidate for the position. They were just stating it is a waste of time for multiple parties when holding multiple offers. It is a big decision to make, but they have seen everything about those schools and spoken with faculty/students at those institutions. It's now time for them to sit down and decide their future.
i completly agree with subdoc and disagree with the rest of you
its unfortunate that not everyone can interview at their top choices early, so when you only have one offer you send a deposit, and then as you gain more acceptances you narrow down your choices,
i dnt think thats greedy, i think if you paid $X you have the right to hold your spot until you wish
so suck it up,
dont hate the players, hate the game
Subdoc, no one was saying that a certain predent was not the better candidate for the position. They were just stating it is a waste of time for multiple parties when holding multiple offers. It is a big decision to make, but they have seen everything about those schools and spoken with faculty/students at those institutions. It's now time for them to sit down and decide their future.
Ooh, Ooh, an INTERNET FIGHTZ!
And what is the point of "sitting" on the offers and delaying the decision?If people want to sit on their offers, so be it.
According to the second paragraph, you agree with us since we are saying that the OP should narrow down his/her choices as quickly as possible. Unlike subdoc who says it is alright to hold off on the decision as long as they wish.i completly agree with subdoc and disagree with the rest of you
its unfortunate that not everyone can interview at their top choices early, so when you only have one offer you send a deposit, and then as you gain more acceptances you narrow down your choices,
If someone is holding multiple acceptances, there will always be at least one more spot opening up. If not tomorrow, it will open up as soon as they decline the offer. For example, If i spend 1,000 dollars to hold a deposit on more than one school, that's a lot of money that I will never get back, I have earned and payed for the opportunity to make an INFORMED decision. You can say you're wasting the school's time, but is their time worth $1,000 to you? I doubt it. For the people left waiting, that offer will eventually come, it just may not come in the next week or the next month, but it will come for some lucky person. For housing and relocation purposes it's nice to know farther in advance.. sure.. But isn't it worth it to get that call or email or status change on your addsas at some point rather than never? Give people time, some probably never thought they would be in this position and that it would be easy, but once you're put into the situation, it isn't necessarily a no-brainer.
subdoc's opinion that they have the right to sit on a school for as long as they wish is greedy and childish.
The only thing childish going on is people whining about something not in their control.
"If you don't like something, change it, if you can't change it, change the way you think about it."
Greedy? Well, that opinion would be in the eye of he who holds multiple offers.
Throughout time, people have coveted what others have. Sorry some may not find out until the bitter end. Unfortunately, that is life. If not getting into a school this cycle is the worst thing to happen to you, get some perspective and realize things could be A LOT worse. I can say this from experience from being on the other end of the previous statement SEVERAL times.
Well, obviously there is a lot of stress and frustration and you should all know that I understand your annoyance at people who are just holding on to spots because of laziness or lack of consideration. I think daily about the fact that there are people out there freaking out about answers and I kick my own ass for holding on to someone else's spot. I already and immediately gave up my offers at multiple schools and am only holding on to the two that I am seriously considering and between which I having the most stressful and difficult time deciding. I will not hold them until May, rather I'll probably know for sure in the next couple of weeks, I only wanted to make sure that I had not yet missed that date. But I get it... it's a rough game and I wish you all the best of luck.
don't worry about me subdoc....I got into my school. but I atleast have the consideration to not hurt others in an action that doesn't even benefit me.
'Grats. I did as well. I thought you should also know I am not holding multiple offers, even though they were received.
Funny how you get all in my business for defending the OP on their right, yet you defend the OP when they are the one languishing on the decision of holding on to multiple offers.
I would recommend that you read all your posts over again (as well as those of mine and the OP)......
You made it evident that any consideration of others was negligible and that no time frame should be made in making the decision.....the OP on the other hand has openly admitted to the importance of making the decision quickly and will be doing so soon.
it is your disregard for others that made my blood boil......and I am sure having this conversation in person with classmates would make taking your point of view much more difficult......I would be ashamed if it were me

I have read the posts you refer to, and also read them before I commented previously.
Fact. Consideration of others IS negligible on deciding on dental school. Do you think Suzy should care about Johnny's feelings when making their decision? I am not saying it is the "human-thing" to do, but their "earned-thing" nonetheless. I will say this...when making my choice, my only consideration was for myself and for my family. Cold? Not a chance. Smart? Yes. If I factored in the feelings of the several hundred to several thousand other hopefuls, I would not be making an informed decision which is best for me and my family. If OP, or anyone else needs more time to decide, like Bobby Brown crooned, it is their prerogative.
I see you take my statement of opinion to be a snapshot of my character. Please don't be so quick to judge people as it will only come back to bite you. For one, you don't know me from a stranger you pass on a sidewalk, but in a short afternoon you have called me, "greedy, and childish"...and have implied I have no character and am inconsiderate to others. Now, please tell me who is the childish one? Maybe you should go back and read YOUR posts.