If you don't agree (and that disagreement is probably pretty significant given your "kill children" comment), then what could possibly prompt you to "do your best to guide them to an answer"?? Anything you say is going to be biased. "Tough luck finding someone to teach you outside the field of ob/gyn" obviously has a negative tone to it, especially if someone is asking for tips outside the ob/gyn path.
"Contact planned parenthood" is the most maudlin piece of advice ever. It's like saying "go see a doctor" to someone with a gigantic gaping wound. If you consider that a useful post, I think you need to learn something about relevance.
My contribution was simply recognizing your deep seated bias + almost useless information and bringing it out into the open, and recognizing that your posts actually *create* the maelstrom of "troll-induced" backlash that you portended. You responded NOT because you're the Mother Teresa of information, or the patron saint of google, but because you had some other agenda.
And yes, it is a student doctor forum. The funny thing is, you are not yet a student doctor.
As for this whole issue, I'm looking forward to learning how to perform abortions and becoming an abortion provider. I hope that my med school's women's health interest group will research this topic further and sponsor abortion workshops in the future.
Much better. I appreciate your effort to tone down the personal attacks and talk more about the issues (far from perfect, but a nice start). Let me make a suggestion: Ignore my messages from now on. Don't read them & don't reply to them. In fact, you can stop reading my message now and skip to the next person's message. If you do read my messages and reply, I'll take it that you have some interest, whether sensible or not. Do realize I'm not planning to stop posting or whatever it is that you have in mind in your "agenda."
I posted my opinion precisely because I wish to disclose my bias. Yes, I'm biased. I was up-front about it. This thread attracted my attention because there are some serious issues with it. It was worth a look, and I had the time. Even though I may disagree strongly with someone doesn't mean that I can't answer a question or engage in a conversation. Is the OP & friend going to give up their goal of becoming an abortion provider because of something I say -- no. Perhaps there is some opportunity for informal conversation & discussion, and there appeared to be some. Overall, it's not been a pretty sight because of the way this was presented and nature of the subject.
My agenda on this thread is simple informal conversation, even leisure. I'm not entirely opposed to abortion, as for example, when the mother's life is in danger, so I do believe there are legitimate reasons for an abortion. However, with respect to this thread, I have no agenda other than to enjoy myself, maybe help out a few people along the way, and make a few informal friends. If my information is helpful, great. If not, then there are thousands of other messages for people to read. I find it entertaining to read posts from Tired, Panda, DKM, ForbiddenComma, etc. This seems like a great place to have some fun, exchange, and critique ideas. I enjoy this forum in a way that you seem to be unable to do without attacking someone. Also, I think I'm getting a few bits of information about what is coming up in my experience. In a way, I don't expect to have this much free time in medical school and in my medical career, so I'm enjoying this while it lasts, so to speak.
The fact that you seem to totally miss is that the OP is a troll (whether they realize it or not) and that this thread will generate no information that you or anyone else can't get from a much better source. The little bit that was shared here is grossly outweighed by useless flames like your initial reply to me. The fact that the thread hasn't been closed (yet) suggests that people have been making an effort to keep the conversation civil. I would argue that your posts, particularly your early ones that were nothing more than personal attacks have not been very helpful in this regard. This isn't the first time you have done this. I've noticed this behavior on a couple of your messages to various people.